So you don’t want to understand why feminists have concerns? Why didn’t you just say that in the first place?
it is impossible to understand the inability to debate issues without it descending into personal attacks on the FWR boards, I think. There is a fairly narrow dominating view point there - and that view point is not shared by all women who consider themselves feminists. It isn't "feminist" to tell other women how to think.
I actually think that there is also a more sinister side to how things are dominated by a fairly narrow viewpoint in the FWR board. For example, cosima1 and seneca raised issues about porn up thread, and I would say that this is true feminism issue, yet you have a pp "feminist" saying "but what can we do?". There is a lot that can be done, and the problem is that serious issues like this are being lost in the torrent of hyperbole about trans issues and women not being "real" feminists unless they agree with the narrow viewpoint of the FWR board. You (as in, FWR board frequenters who follow the narrow view point) are in danger of throwing the baby out with the bath water.
"but what can we do?" - raise awareness of it and its consequences in the general public, start new threads about it on mumsnet (instead of threads like this), write articles, write to MPs with a view to lobbying for change. In France you can travel quite a distance without seeing a scantily clad women or girl posing on a billboard, let alone one in a provocative pose - find out how women in France achieved it. Lots of things can be done.