I'm a feminist but for me feminism means something different to other women because I am childless and so reproductive rights are not in my agenda, nor are maternity issues. I suppose you could argue that I should support other women for whom it is important, but I don't believe in supporting people just because we share the same reproductive system when I might think they are wrong, or when they insult and belittle women like me.
I also can't get worked up around trans issues or what name a woman uses following marriage. I took my husband's name on marriage but as his mother was an unmarried single parent of an unmarried single mother then it's actually her name (or her grandfather's names whatever).
I support equality for men and women. To me that is the true meaning of feminism - women should not be subject to the ridiculous double standards that exist around sex, attitudes etc. Men are strong. Women are bossy. Men are angry. Women are hysterical. That's wrong and language matters.
I think that boys should have opportunities to go into caring careers and girls encouraged to go into science and technology. I believe in positive discrimination to achieve this because that is fair.
However on here sometimes the ridiculous double standards in situations where a woman is encouraged to snoop on her probably innocent partner, whilst a man is accused of being controlled is hardly a shining example of feminism.
I work in sports physio and frequently get various sports mansplained to me. However, I've also seen women infantilise men and believe that men are less able to parent.
In short there is room for improvement on both sides.