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To Find Christmas Jumpers Morally Abhorrent?

266 replies

MitziK · 25/11/2019 22:23

Why has this become a thing? Spend twenty-plus quid so everybody can see you're 'doing it for charity', when what you are actually doing is spunking cash on something you will wear for between 1 and 5 days in a year before dumping it in the back of the wardrobe or binning it to buy another one next year?

People who can't afford that twenty pound feel under pressure/disapproval for 'not joining in, it's FOR CHARITY'. Somebody makes a hell of a lot of money for the jumpers and chucks a couple of quid at most to a charity. You've just given them TWO QUID, that's all. The seller still has eighteen quid of your money and you still look like a twat.

If somebody wants to do something for charity, wear your usual jumper, take that twenty quid you would have wasted on some synthetic monstrosity with bells or reindeer ears and buy some food to shove in the collection bins for the local foodbank, don't take fucking photos with all your mates wearing disposable jumpers, thinking you're Really Making a Difference.

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overnightangel · 25/11/2019 23:35

Sou da line the OP is just desperate to take some sort of moral high ground. Over nothing. I didn’t realise Christmas jumpers was a charity thing so I’ve no idea what she’s on about

haba · 25/11/2019 23:35

I hate what a waste of resources they are. Just buy nice jumpers and reuse them

Pannalash · 25/11/2019 23:35

Morally abhorrent crikey OP there’s about a billion things I would describe as such before Christmas Jumpers. You should give your head a wobble OP.

Inertia · 25/11/2019 23:37

School children could wear any jumper they already have- our school asks parents not to buy a Christmas jumper specially, but to send the children in clothing they've already got.

If you don't want to do Christmas jumpers as an adult, then don't.

If you do, then it's pretty straightforward to buy a Christmas jumper that's tasteful enough to wear at other times throughout the winter. They can also be kept for the following year- winter is a very predictable event.

Beveren · 25/11/2019 23:39

How are they any more of a waste of resources than any other jumper? I've worn mine at least 40 times and will probably add another 15-20 each year till it falls apart. Seems like a very good use of resources to me.

TSSDNCOP · 25/11/2019 23:41

I thought the point was you bought a cheap, cheesy one and wear it year after year. The kids ones just get handed round and round. They’re bloody indestructible.

dreichwinter · 25/11/2019 23:43

I like my Xmas jumper I've had it for a few years. I wear it at least as much as my swimsuit. Are they morally wrong too?

NemophilistRebel · 25/11/2019 23:43

YANBU
As someone who doesn’t own one, being forced to buy one to wear for Christmas jumper day in my opinion is a total waste and I could do far better by donating the money I would have spent to good causes.

What a joke

They are shit, made in cheap fabrics and not made to last longer than the handful of wears

Lostintransfixation · 25/11/2019 23:43

Totally agree OP. Why cant they wear home clothes to school instead for charity raising? It's more pressure on families to buy stuff to fit in. It shouldn't be expected!!

Passthecherrycoke · 25/11/2019 23:43

I love it when people say “when did it become a THING” when said thing has been about for 5 years Grin

midnightmisssuki · 25/11/2019 23:47

Jesus fucking wept. Don’t use it/buy it if you don’t want to then! Gods god - the professionally and perpetually offended! Where does it end? Don’t buy a real Christmas tree? It’s going to die anyway. Don’t buy baubles, they were probably made in terrible conditions and used once a year, don’t bother with wrapping paper - where will it end?!

egontoste · 25/11/2019 23:48

They are a darn sight cheaper and get far more wear than a school prom dress.

LittlePaintBox · 25/11/2019 23:51

YANBU to object to the 'throwaway culture' which encourages us to buy cheap(ish) clothes for a few wears.

YABU to label Christmas jumpers 'morally abhorrent'. Most people seem to wear them for most of December, at least!

ActualFemale · 25/11/2019 23:52

I bought mine from The factory shop for £5 six years ago. It wasn't bought for charity and I wear it more than five times a year. I've picked another two up since for less than £5 each as I get them in the after Xmas sales

I have a family member who goes on about what a waste they are. She has a wedding dress sat in her wardrobe that cost her £900 and she's worn it once in ten years. But somehow my Christmas jumpers are the waste of money :)

Dd is in y10 and she hates jumpers in general, she wouldn't ever wear a Xmas jumper so I don't buy her them, when her school have the Xmas jumper days she just doesn't take part and it's never been an issue with school or her peers. Her school do not pressure every child to take part and make it clear that it's fully optional and for parents not to go buy brand new jumpers just for one day at school. She usually takes £1 in for the charity and wears her uniform as normal. Quite a few other kids don't take part either.

MrsEricBana · 25/11/2019 23:52

I agree with you OP.

Catsandchardonnay · 25/11/2019 23:54

YANBU and you have a brilliant writing style, I love the slightly wacky rantiness of your OP Grin

CheshireChat · 26/11/2019 00:02

DS's school just ask the kids to come in wearing their own clothes and in one case PJs- that one was bloody expensive as he didn't have any that fit him or a dressing gown. Just to clarify, he wears older tops/ bottoms for bed normally and since I don't drive the dressing gown replaced the usual jumper.

I think it's absolutely fine to buy them if you plan on wearing them until they're worn out. Not sure how this can apply to kids though as they'll obviously outgrow stuff and it doesn't really matter if you buy them a Christmas or a normal jumper for the cold season as it's unlikely to fit next year anyway. Admittedly DS only wears thicker jumpers around winter time (but he'd be cold otherwise), no chance he'd wear them throughout the year as he runs warm, just hoodies.

CheshireChat · 26/11/2019 00:05

midnightmisssuki people are already encouraged to ditch wrapping paper or to use patterned brown paper as that's recyclable.

The only ditch the bauble thing I've seen was to decorate the tree with natural stuff like pine cones, cinnamon sticks and dehydrated oranges and the like.

dayslikethese1 · 26/11/2019 00:07

Surely prom dresses and wedding dresses are worse.

Redyoyo · 26/11/2019 00:08

My kids school lets them wear a xmas jumper every day in December with their uniform, they get good wear out them and they don't go missing like their bloody school cardigans! My works night out is always Christmas jumper night and it saves a fortune on an outfit, £20 for a jumper or £50+ for some sparky number that you'll probably wear twice if your lucky!
TEAM JUMPER

dayslikethese1 · 26/11/2019 00:09

And people who buy all new decorations each year, madness!

Elbowedout · 26/11/2019 00:10

Mine is more of a winter jumper - it has a picture of a penguin and some snowflakes - and I wear it quite a lot. I have had it for about 3 years and I am sure it will do many more. I do wear it to work on Christmas Jumper Day but it gets worn on plenty of other occasions too as it is noce and cosy. I agree that buying a new jumper every year and wearing it once would be very wasteful. I don't know anyone who does that personally, but if people do then yes, I think that is wrong. But you can enjoy a festive jumper without having to do that. And if you don't like them, well, don't get one. My children's school have always had a Christmas jumper/ non uniform day and lots of the pupils just wear normal clothes on that day. I've never really noticed any pressure to wear one.
It would, or course be far better if everyone just gave to good causes without any dressing up, head shaving, facial hair growing or sponsored anything. But they don't. "Doing something" for a cause is generally more effective than just asking for donations. I did a cycling challenge last year and every time I put an update on social media about the distance I'd reached, or a photo of myself riding in the snow or up a horrid hill then there would be a flurry of donations. Doing something challenging, embarrassing, silly or fun does not make your cause any more or less worthy, but it does generally encourage people to give. I am sure that if charities didn't find these things effective they wouldn't do them. If Christmas jumpers mean that people give more than they would otherwise then I think they are fine.

squeekums · 26/11/2019 00:21

So ah OP, what do you think of the christmas rashie
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To Find Christmas Jumpers Morally Abhorrent?
FlashesOfRage · 26/11/2019 00:40

There must be something to do with Christmas jumpers and charity that is happening where you live that I’ve never heard about Confused

As far as I am aware;
If you fancy it you can buy a jumper that is Christmas themed and wear it as much as you like around Christmas.
You can buy super cheap ones on eBay/amazon or you can buy fancier ones (that actually fit human people!)
You can wear it again for years and years if you like.

Please help us understand what is different to this that you have seen/experienced because it feels like your OP starts partway through the story 🤷‍♀️

Bunney2020 · 26/11/2019 00:45

Are you getting this het up about all consumerism or just festive jumpers?

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