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To Find Christmas Jumpers Morally Abhorrent?

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MitziK · 25/11/2019 22:23

Why has this become a thing? Spend twenty-plus quid so everybody can see you're 'doing it for charity', when what you are actually doing is spunking cash on something you will wear for between 1 and 5 days in a year before dumping it in the back of the wardrobe or binning it to buy another one next year?

People who can't afford that twenty pound feel under pressure/disapproval for 'not joining in, it's FOR CHARITY'. Somebody makes a hell of a lot of money for the jumpers and chucks a couple of quid at most to a charity. You've just given them TWO QUID, that's all. The seller still has eighteen quid of your money and you still look like a twat.

If somebody wants to do something for charity, wear your usual jumper, take that twenty quid you would have wasted on some synthetic monstrosity with bells or reindeer ears and buy some food to shove in the collection bins for the local foodbank, don't take fucking photos with all your mates wearing disposable jumpers, thinking you're Really Making a Difference.

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tillytrotter1 · 25/11/2019 23:06

To find Christmas jumpers 'morally abhorrant' immediately indicates someone's feable attempt to scale the moral high-ground! Had you said they were universally tacky and ugly I would be agreeing with you, red is a colour I wouldn't wear for any reason, charity or not.

shearwater · 25/11/2019 23:07

I've had mine at least five years. It has seen a lot more wear than a long formal dress I've worn, er, twice.

funmummy48 · 25/11/2019 23:07

I love my Christmas jumpers! I have four and have had them for about 5 years now. They have plenty of life in them yet and as I work in a school, I’ll be wearing them a lot in December. I also have a Pudsey T shirt which is 5 years old and will be worn every year until it gives up the ghost and gets recycled into dusters. I hardly think I’m causing anyone any sort of problem. 😉

carrots555 · 25/11/2019 23:07

I've never seen anyone wear a Christmas jumper outside of December.
It's not like a regular jumper.

We have this day where I work; I'm not going to buy one specially.

emmylousings · 25/11/2019 23:08

Totally agree OP. I loathe it. Buy second hand ones for kids to oblige the 'School Christmas Jumper Day' - that's it. Otherwise, steer clear.

PickAChew · 25/11/2019 23:08

Another one of these threads?

I get more wear out of my Christmas jumper than my shorts. And it's about to do its 4th December.

tillytrotter1 · 25/11/2019 23:11

The charity day was started by Save the Children I believe, have we ever seen their President wearing one, Princess Anne???

Bluerussian · 25/11/2019 23:12

I love my Christmas jumpers! They are pretty as well as warm. I wear them a few times. My favourite is navy blue with slowflakes on it.

It's news to me that they're worn for charity (but I'm always a bit behind the times).

doritosdip · 25/11/2019 23:13

Have you never bought a swimsuit or skiing clothes that are only used in holiday?

If you don't want to buy one then don't.

Most adults wear last year's jumper for a few years since there's no year on a typical jumper. I've seen lots of people offering outgrown children's jumpers on Facebook and our local charity shop has a rack of them for sale.

Fast fashion is a big problem but Xmas jumpers aren't the problem here.

VanyaHargreeves · 25/11/2019 23:13

If you had started a thread to say Christmas jumpers are tat, annoying and cringe and yet another wasteful forced frivolity trend along with the Christmas Eve Boxes and the Elf I'd wholeheartedly agree

However "morally abhorrent" is a massive, weirdly angry, overstatement they are tacky jumpers not a criminal offence

YABU

lisasimpsonssaxophone · 25/11/2019 23:15

I have one Christmas jumper that I’ve owned for six years, and I’ve worn it just as much if not more than a boring ‘normal’ jumper of a similar thickness that I also own.

I only have need for a thick warm jumper when it’s really cold, which fortunately happens most often around Christmas time!

I don’t think I know anyone who wears the same jumper 2-3 times a week, for months at a time, year after year! Do you?

MistyCloud · 25/11/2019 23:16

@MitziK

YABU. And you sound irrationally angry! Confused

I got 2 Christmas jumpers (like the ones pictured) in December 2013 (£12 for the two...) I have got plenty of use out of them. I wear them at least 12-13 times every year (each) - during the second half of November, and throughout December.

As many people have said, there's no law to say that you can only wear your Christmas jumper on the 'Christmas jumper for Charity' day.

You don't have to spend £20-25 plus to get one either. Go to Peacocks, Primark, the outdoor markets etc.. You will find one for a tenner or less. Or you can buy them online cheaply too (for less than a tenner,) from boohoo, ASOS, Amazon, and ebay.

To Find Christmas Jumpers Morally Abhorrent?
To Find Christmas Jumpers Morally Abhorrent?
WorraLiberty · 25/11/2019 23:16

What happens if you knit your own?

Does the OP just get marginally angry about that?

Or just slightly peeved? Grin

IncrediblySadToo · 25/11/2019 23:17

🙄🙄🙄🙄

It’s a jumper...calm down dear.

RedToothBrush · 25/11/2019 23:18

To make the OP happy, I think I might start wearing my Christmas jumpers from tomorrow and then wear them every day until February.

Then I will get moaned at for doing Christmas too early. And then too late.

And I'm not sure I'd wear my Christmas jumper less than some other items I have in my wardrobe either. Had them a good few years now and don't need anymore.

I LIKE Christmas jumpers and tbh having the opportunity to piss off, people who whinge at what I decide to wear as if its any of their business, makes it all the sweeter.

If you don't want to wear a christmas jumper, don't. Don't complain at what others wear, because you don't like it.

SheOfManyNames · 25/11/2019 23:18

Nobody HAS to buy them. Just chuck your £2 in but say you won't be buying a jumper.

Bigbigboots · 25/11/2019 23:19

Christmas jumpers can be worn for at least the whole of December and can be worn every December for 30 years. I have one Christmas jumper I put away every January and get out every November. I don't care if you can't imagine someone using the same jumper every Christmas. That's your problem, nobody else's. And my jumper is nothing to do with charity and never had been. I wear it for the Christmas fun and to be festive.

Babablackship · 25/11/2019 23:20

Yanbu. Loathe them too

StrawberryTot · 25/11/2019 23:21

£20 plus?!? Where do you shop? Shock As it sure ain’t the same as where I shop.

I have a drawer full, T-shirt’s, shirts and jumpers, some I’ve had for years. My DD has also been wearing mine for the last couple of years too, so plenty of wear and worth the pennies.

AndwhenyougetthereFoffsomemore · 25/11/2019 23:25

I can't see that jumpers are any worse than wedding outfits/formal wear that is also worn very occasionally: my Christmas jumper has had a lot more wear than most of my evening wear (I have two Christmas jumpers, one is 7 years old now...)

I do have some discomfort for small/fast growing children - but with two kids, I always a) bought large so each jumper lasted 2 years then was ready to pass to the next child and b) always passed jumpers on either to charity shop or friends: in other words, acted to mitigate the environmental impact whilst still enjoying Christmas jumper fun (ours get worn for all Christmas occasions in December) . I think moral outrage is a bit ... nearsighted OP.

And Save the Children are always VERY explicit that homemade/decorated jumpers are absolutely fine for their jumper day: my kids (secondary) school has a home-decorated jumper competition to encourage reuse rather than buying....

OkOkWhatsNext · 25/11/2019 23:27

Good thing about a Christmas jumper is it’s never out of fashion, or in it particularly. The ones I bought ten years ago are still going strong and no more or less in style than when I got them! I reckon I get more wear out of them in a year than I do out of the optimistically purchased floaty summer dress I bought this year and wore once on holiday in Cornwall on one of the less rainy days...

AllesAusLiebe · 25/11/2019 23:28

YANBU.

I hate them. I hate the ridiculous premise that if you're not partaking in Xmas jumper day at work that you're a miserable bastard. Everyone parading around work demonstrating how zany they are because they're wearing a cheap pullover like it's some kind of ironic statement. I know colleagues who take the day off work because they don't like the pressure of it and feeling obligated to conform to this idea makes them feel so uncomfortable. Didn't realise that it was a thing in schools now - fucking hell.

It's another element of Christmas that is horribly wasteful and irresponsible.

Beveren · 25/11/2019 23:29

YABU. I knitted mine and the satisfaction and enjoyment I got out of that justified the cost of the yarn and pattern on its own. I wore it on and off throughout December last year and the year before, and am about to dig it out for this year. I've more than had my money's worth.

ValiaH · 25/11/2019 23:31

Well, I can see your point. And some people do just throw them out and buy new the following year. But, my kids Christmas jumpers are as follows- eldest has a new (this year) organic cotton top and a jumper dress, both of which are large and will fit her next year too. Middle is wearing hand me downs- tshirt and jumper-that are 4 years old, youngest is wearing a Christmas cardi which was given to his eldest sister on her 2nd Christmas. Last year and the year before he wore one that I had bought my eldest 6 years ago in a charity shop, and which all 3 of mine have worn. All the jumpers will be passed down to other children when mine grow out of them. DH's jumper used to be my sisters, I am the only one who 'needs' a new-to-us one as I have put on weight. My kids have been wearing their festive clothes since the start of November. I think, like any clothing, they can be part of consumerist culture or they can last and not be seen as disposable.

VanGoghsDog · 25/11/2019 23:34

But WHY are people only wearing them once? I mean, that is insane.

Because I hate jumpers generally, they make me too hot and are itchy.

I only have about three and rarely wear any of them.

I refuse to buy an actual Christmas jumper for this reason. I have a couple of cotton tops with Christmas motifs I wear instead.

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