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To Find Christmas Jumpers Morally Abhorrent?

266 replies

MitziK · 25/11/2019 22:23

Why has this become a thing? Spend twenty-plus quid so everybody can see you're 'doing it for charity', when what you are actually doing is spunking cash on something you will wear for between 1 and 5 days in a year before dumping it in the back of the wardrobe or binning it to buy another one next year?

People who can't afford that twenty pound feel under pressure/disapproval for 'not joining in, it's FOR CHARITY'. Somebody makes a hell of a lot of money for the jumpers and chucks a couple of quid at most to a charity. You've just given them TWO QUID, that's all. The seller still has eighteen quid of your money and you still look like a twat.

If somebody wants to do something for charity, wear your usual jumper, take that twenty quid you would have wasted on some synthetic monstrosity with bells or reindeer ears and buy some food to shove in the collection bins for the local foodbank, don't take fucking photos with all your mates wearing disposable jumpers, thinking you're Really Making a Difference.

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Iwantacookie · 25/11/2019 22:46

Yanbu I refuse to buy them for my dc completely Pointless as it will only fit them for 1 year 2 at a push and even if they wore it xmas jumper day and weekends it would still only be worn a dozen times a year.
I dont mind adults buying them though as they can reuse them but some of them just look stupid.

EdHelpPls · 25/11/2019 22:47

meh. Sure it’s the same for lots of things - pudsey merch springs to mind! Just give direct to the charity. Argh!
i get my girls things with stars or a winter theme ( eg penguin rather than elf pictures) and they get longer wear from them. I picked up 4 new (to us) tops in the charity shop today for £1 each. Adult stuff was all creepy acrylic stuff though. I’d prob just accessorise a plain jumper with tinsel if I had to...

PersonaNonGarter · 25/11/2019 22:47

YABU.

What ever else is going on in your life, you need to calm down about this.

Fancy Dresses, sportswear, ski gloves, whatever, all only get occasional wear. That’s just in the nature of these things. Let it go.

ShadowOnTheSun · 25/11/2019 22:48

Eh? I clearly must be missing something. What charity? I've bought myself one last year because I liked it (and still do). Wore it last year, wearing it this year and will wear it in the future years to come (not every day, of course). It's decent quality and looks good (to me). How is this bad? It's like any other jumper I have, just Christmas-themed. One day I wear a 'simple' jumper, another - my Xmas one.. I don't intend to bin it after a few wears, why would I? It's a perfectly good jumper, why bin it?

MitziK · 25/11/2019 22:48

Just looked on the M&S website (so shoot me, I'm old and fat and have to wear clothes that are deemed modest and professional for work). Here's their spiel;

'Want to prove you're not a Scrooge? Slip on one of our novelty Christmas jumpers and let the celebrations begin'

If that's what it takes to prove I'm not a Scrooge, then Bah, Bloody Humbug.

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EskewedBeef · 25/11/2019 22:49

People tend to wear the same one for years, rather than invest in a new one every winter. Like bikinis, they have limited use every year, but they are not thrown away after one season.

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 25/11/2019 22:49

Eh OP?

Last year when DD1 was in preschool she wore her Xmas jumper regularly. I dunno, 1-2 times a week. Into March, yes. And she is wearing it again this year. It has as much longevity as any of her other jumpers/ cardies, although admittedly this year she wears it only at weekends as she is in uniform 5 x a week. When she outgrows it this spring, we will put it away with her other winter clothes for DD2 next year.

You lost me at expecting clothes to last years. My children are pretty petite and grow out of sizes slowly but they still need new clothes every 6 months or annually. Even if I buy big, I don't get more than say 18 mos wear out of anything.

Why are Xmas jumpers different from any other winter clothing? Do you not buy wellies, gloves etc?

IfWishesWereFishes · 25/11/2019 22:49

Fucking hell settle down woman Hmm

PassTheSaltCarol · 25/11/2019 22:50

YABU.

Ho Ho Ho.

VolcanionSteamArtillery · 25/11/2019 22:51

DC got Christmas jumpers big, wore them for a significant proportion of december and passed them on either to the younger sibling , friends kids or charity shop. One did 4-5 years every December weekend, school disco Christmas party etc.

One got worn all winter cos ASD DS loved penguins at the time.

Mine get worn year in year out, last year i actually got a couple more so i had a chance to wash them.

I cant see you point if you wear them until they wear out. It just might take a few years...

Deadsouls · 25/11/2019 22:51

YAB V V V U
Christmas jumpers should not just be for Christmas

BlueJava · 25/11/2019 22:53

Never worn one and never will. I just give cash without wearing it at work. But i can't get in a stew about others wearing them.

winewolfhowls · 25/11/2019 22:53

Twas on radio four about a female scrooge adaptation of a Christmas Carol. It's you isn't it?

Footiefan2019 · 25/11/2019 22:53

You wear the same jumper 3 times a week, 6 months of the year for like 5 plus years ? Sorry but that’s ... unusual.. where are you buying these indestructible jumpers ?

Cocolapew · 25/11/2019 22:54

I work in a school and wear a Christmas jumper every day in December, the tackier the better.
I presume you're talking about a charity Christmas jumper day? There's no law saying you can only wear it on that day Confused

PaulHollywoodsleftbollockhair · 25/11/2019 22:54

Why don't you forgo everything Christmas and give the money to charity?
Perhaps even volunteer your time in a soup kitchen?

floppybit · 25/11/2019 22:54

YANBU, Christmas jumpers are shit

Bluewavescrashing · 25/11/2019 22:57

I've bought one for myself and one for my DS, both on facebay for £3 each in immaculate condition. Mine will be worn for a few years, DS is a size too big, but when it's outgrown it'll be passed on.

The garment isn't the issue, but the throwaway culture is.

SlightlyBonkersQFA · 25/11/2019 22:57

I like them, I have at least three actually. But some of them are coming in to their fourth year of service. Teenage daughter borrows one for her christmas jumper day. I like them, they're cosy.

They might actually be my favourite part of Christmas.

NomDeQwerty · 25/11/2019 22:58

1 Get a jumper you already own
2 Decorate it with Christmas stuff
3 Wear as necessary
4 In January remove the Christmas stuff from the jumper

Job done.

romeoonthebalcony · 25/11/2019 23:01

when did it become a thing though and how? I have been wondering this as it definitely was not a thing in the 60s, 70s and 80s to buy specifically Xmas jumpers was it? Although we often got a jumper as a gift not one with rudolphs etc on them or to be worn specially?

Iamthewombat · 25/11/2019 23:02

I’m with you, OP.

Christmas jumpers are a stupid invented tradition anyway. Dating back ten years, if that. Invented to encourage us to buy more stuff. Mostly made of acrylic, so more plastic crap in landfill, yay.

What’s with these stupid ‘Christmas Eve boxes’ that we’re now being told to buy?

MitziK · 25/11/2019 23:02

@PaulHollywoodsleftbollockhair Done that on several occasions, thanks. It's one of the reasons why wasting twenty quid on something that won't see the light of day again for a year seems so insulting - I was serving food to people that didn't even have a pair of socks or shoes that weren't more hole than footwear.

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Iamthewombat · 25/11/2019 23:03

Cross posted with @romeoonthebalcony.

I don’t member Christmas jumpers being a thing ever until quite recently.

threesecrets · 25/11/2019 23:05

eBay is your friend