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To Find Christmas Jumpers Morally Abhorrent?

266 replies

MitziK · 25/11/2019 22:23

Why has this become a thing? Spend twenty-plus quid so everybody can see you're 'doing it for charity', when what you are actually doing is spunking cash on something you will wear for between 1 and 5 days in a year before dumping it in the back of the wardrobe or binning it to buy another one next year?

People who can't afford that twenty pound feel under pressure/disapproval for 'not joining in, it's FOR CHARITY'. Somebody makes a hell of a lot of money for the jumpers and chucks a couple of quid at most to a charity. You've just given them TWO QUID, that's all. The seller still has eighteen quid of your money and you still look like a twat.

If somebody wants to do something for charity, wear your usual jumper, take that twenty quid you would have wasted on some synthetic monstrosity with bells or reindeer ears and buy some food to shove in the collection bins for the local foodbank, don't take fucking photos with all your mates wearing disposable jumpers, thinking you're Really Making a Difference.

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GreenTulips · 26/11/2019 17:04

I’m glad you and your husband - who are adults have a jumper to wear.

Growing children and families with more than one child @£10 per jumper for Christmas jumper day is extortionate year in and year out. They can’t reuse them as they’re too small.

LolaSmiles · 26/11/2019 17:14

Exactly green

Plus whether someone wants to have a Christmas jumper or not should come from them wanting a Christmas jumper, not from school telling parents that Friday is the annual charity Christmas jumper day which places pressure on people to participate or have their child singled out for not having one.

MarshaBradyo · 26/11/2019 17:16

I wouldn’t buy a jumper for a one off school day. I don’t know if they do it but I don’t buy for these types of days generally. Plains clothes, using what they have already, fine.

flapjackfairy · 26/11/2019 17:17

What about wedding dresses ? Are they morally abhorrent as well ! You only wear them once !

horse4course · 26/11/2019 17:20

I hate the look of Xmas jumpers and don't wear them.

But - charities would rather have that £2 than nothing. It's fun and brings people together. You can always just pin some tinsel on a normal jumper. Or buy one secondhand. Or make one even.

So I think yabu

Happyinheels · 26/11/2019 17:21

My £7 Christmas jumper has been worn way more than my wedding dress - which is languishing in my wardrobe from 20 years ago...

SheChoseDown · 26/11/2019 17:33

You are the most uptight person on the Internet.

ravenshope · 26/11/2019 17:54

@ThatsMeInTheSpotlight (excellent user name btw)
I'm in Wales and wear a jumper every day throughout the colder months! I thought most people did...

GreenTulips · 26/11/2019 18:05

What about wedding dresses ? Are they morally abhorrent as well ! You only wear them once

You chose to buy a wedding dress, you don’t have your work dictate it must be worn on C Friday in December

IceCreamAndCandyfloss · 26/11/2019 18:09

It’s perfectly possible to give to charity as well as own a Christmas jumper. I only wear wellies when it snows or a bikini on holiday so plenty of seasonal clothing in wardrobes.

No one needs children, air flights, disposable nappies etc but people still do all these and I’d imagine there’s a lot more waste and damage to the environment that Christmas jumpers produce.

JoannaObrien · 26/11/2019 18:13

I hate rude Christmas jumpers.

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EightAce · 26/11/2019 18:17

I HATE the trend for Christmas jumpers. It's only a thing because of Mr Darcy's ghastly knitwear in Bridget Jones. Nobody gave a shit beforehand.

Bolllocks to buying something just to wear on the happy jolly Christmas Jumper to work day.

MIdgebabe · 26/11/2019 18:19

Oh dear, can I only wear my Christmas jumper on one day in the year?
And must I change it every year?

I have been doing it wrong all these years. So sorry, letting the side down.

SaveKevin · 26/11/2019 18:57

I think for adults who can wear them over and over year after year yabu.
But kids, god yes. You spend a tenner each year to raise £2. Id love to see collection points and second hand sales to raise even more. It would make much more sense.

FizzyIce · 26/11/2019 19:42

@GreenTulips
Thanks , I’m glad too..
You do not need to spend £10 on a jumper for kids, I’ve never spent that much .
And at schools it just has to be something Christmassy which can be a t shirt or just Christmas colours so don’t be so dramatic .

FizzyIce · 26/11/2019 19:44

And don’t people who buy their kids jumpers ask them to wear them again ? If you don’t that’s on you, you have the whole of December to make use of them rather than one day and that’s it

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 26/11/2019 19:45

christmas jumpers are seasonal as is most clothing Hmm

LolaSmiles · 26/11/2019 21:52

That's great fizzy if the family would have normally bought a Christmas jumper.

If they wouldn't buy a Christmas jumper, don't really like them, wouldn't wear them and have only bought one because some silly headteacher has decided it'll look good then they're stuck with an item of clothing nobody really likes, doesn't want to wear and have only got it under pressure to avoid their child standing out.

Whereas the people who already buy and wear Christmas jumpers throughout the season are using something they would already have and use.

It's a bit like my "Christmas jumpers". I have a few wintery jumpers. I love them and they have fair isle detailing or subtle snowflakes on. They're great and get worn throughout winter, including when schools have done jumper day.

I've had colleagues say "poor effort" or "call that a Christmas jumper" when working at schools that do Christmas jumper day. It's in jest, but the underlying tone is that anyone who hasn't gone for a cheesy Christmas jumper or has opted out completely is some sort of Scrooge Grinch who is miserable. If that's adults to adults, it not hard to see why parents wouldn't want their child not to be the odd one out.

There's no reason for workplaces or schools to be pushing this sort of thing, be it Pudsey accessories, fancy dress, Christmas jumper days etc.

JoannaObrien · 27/11/2019 06:57

Has my rude snowman jumper post been removed? I can't see it anymore?

I like this snowman jumper

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JoannaObrien · 27/11/2019 06:57

ooops! I didn't know it was on the last page lol

SaveKevin · 27/11/2019 11:31

And don’t people who buy their kids jumpers ask them to wear them again ? If you don’t that’s on you, you have the whole of December to make use of them rather than one day and that’s it

They are never tumble dryer friendly so between washing you get 2/3 days a week wear (if your on the ball and able to dry it), for a month.

At least with other seasonal clothes you get 4 or so months, plus the odd day or so in the other seasons.

dottypotter · 27/11/2019 16:10

another stupid idea.

Tetraread · 27/11/2019 16:14

I bought one on eBay a decade ago and I wear it every year, it is a classic though. I agree that if you are only going to wear it once, or just buy one as you are pressured to under the guise of supporting a charity, then absolutely wrong.

Spoonsmum · 27/11/2019 16:18

@SheChoseDown I’ve just seen your user name and I just wanted to show my appreciation :)

TheElfFellOffTheShelf · 27/11/2019 16:49

They are never tumble dryer friendly so between washing you get 2/3 days a week wear (if your on the ball and able to dry it), for a month. We don't have a tumble drier so for us everything we wear had to have a gap of 2 or more days between uses and the Christmas jumpers don't take any longer to dry than any other type of jumper. Also, if they're not smelly or visibly dirty, you can wear clothes for more than one day at a time.