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To ask what you think is worth spending a bit extra on?

296 replies

ethelfleda · 24/11/2019 22:50

And what you think isn’t?
Can be anything - food, clothes, holidays etc etc?

For example, I’ve just bought some socks that are a cashmere blend and wonder how I could now ever go back to boring old cotton.
Likewise, I usually spend a bit more on coffee for good quality. But some food items such as tinned pulses - I don’t think it matters buying cheap.

What items do you spend a little more on because you think they’re worth it? And which do you buy the cheapest of because you can’t notice any difference?

Thanks for taking part in a mundane thread Smile

OP posts:
OhTheRoses · 25/11/2019 06:59

Shoes
Bags
Quality pasta
Meat and poultry
Lipstick and mascara
Coats
Education
Furniture and white goods

Zaphodsotherhead · 25/11/2019 07:05

I am genuinely poor so there's not a lot of cash to spend on anything. However, I won't buy cut price/own brand tea (it has to be Yorkshire Tea), only buy real butter (I don't even count Lurpack as 'real'!) and meat has to be good quality (hate picking bone/gristle/fat out of a stew).

Anything else, well, if there's the money I buy the best I can afford but really there's often not much to choose between the best and the cheapest if you shop carefully.

DeeAndMe · 25/11/2019 07:06

Anything.
Cheap versions are never quite the same. They might be okay, but still never as good, it doesn't matter whether it's food, cars, clothing, hotels, cosmetics: to cut the price, manufacturers have to reduce quality to some extent.

stucknoue · 25/11/2019 07:09

Hotels, you got to have a decent nights sleep. Sheets, puts cotton high tc is a must. I can turn some of the cheapest ingredients into great food but fresh herbs really help in many dishes (of course growing your own is a cheap way of doing it)

Glitterybelle · 25/11/2019 07:09

Fairy Liquid and toilet roll (buy cheap buy twice)
Foundation
Shampoo
Free range eggs
I think that's it :)

SnugglySnerd · 25/11/2019 07:13

Eggs
Nice vine tomatoes.
Shoes.
Proper winter coat.

EleanorReally · 25/11/2019 07:18

free range eggs
lurpak, though if i can get to Aldi Norpak is good
Loo paper
Face cream
make up

TheFuckingDogs · 25/11/2019 07:20

Ace thread!

Decent foundation and primer - all other make up happy to go cheaper

Salt - good quality salt is really important in how food tastes

Booze!

Candles - a good quality scented candle is sooo much nicer

Go cheap on the cat food - used to spend a fortune on the “good stuff” then had a skint period so bought cheap and the cats really don’t notice so never switched back!

EleanorReally · 25/11/2019 07:20

oh and Honey

FamilyOfAliens · 25/11/2019 07:22

@StickyParkin

Ethical down? How does that work? Genuinely interested as I can’t imagine any other way of harvesting down than plucking it from a bird!

marblesgoing · 25/11/2019 07:24

Higher end

Meat
Coats for kids
Paint and wallpaper
Carpets
Curtains
Bed linen
Washing laundry stuff
Tights
Shoes/boots
Perfume
Kids shoes/boots
Bread
Eggs

Lower end
Loo cleaner
Bleach
Food bags
Kitchen roll
Coffee (Lidl specially selected is lovely)
Frozen veg

TheFuckingDogs · 25/11/2019 07:25

Oh coffee and olive oil have to be good quality too

Whattodoabout · 25/11/2019 07:26

Shoes. My Dad always taught me that cheap shoes are a false economy and I completely agree. I’d rather have less shoes but have better quality ones.

Fairy washing up liquid and also their platinum dishwasher tablets.

slpit · 25/11/2019 07:29

Bed linen
Foundation
Cutlery
Bed and mattress
Pillows

Most things bed related really!

WhereverIMayRoam · 25/11/2019 07:31

Fresh fruit and veg
Good tinned tomatoes
Fresh fish
Real butter
Oral B pro expert toothpaste

Amanduh · 25/11/2019 07:32

Teabags and makeup. That’s about it, 80% of the time cheaper doesn’t mean worse quality.

TheFuckingDogs · 25/11/2019 07:35

Going high end on porridge oats always baffles me - it’s an oat, how much better can one oat be? I’m prepared to be told I’m wrong though!

crispysausagerolls · 25/11/2019 07:42

Children’s shoes. There are so many, many things I would sacrifice if need be to ensure my son has proper shoes. Never understand people who can afford it getting stupid shit with no support.

PurpleDaisies · 25/11/2019 07:46

I would gave said skincare until I recently changed from Ester Lauder to Superdrug’s be radiant range and it’s just as good for about a sixth of the price.

I’d pay more for...
kitchen roll
Loo roll
Bin bags
Waterproof coats and walking boots

PlumsGalore · 25/11/2019 07:55

Mmmm difficult, I think once you can afford something a bit better whatever it may be, it’s easy to get a taste for it.

So good quality boots, handbags and purses
Good quality food including coffee, tea and wine
Cars
Mattress
Flights
Sofas

I agree with most other people. I haven’t always been able to afford nice things but I would miss them if I could t anymore.

SterlingViolet · 25/11/2019 08:02

shoes/boots
perfume
lingerie (within reason)
coats
handbags
Cognac
dog food

DriftingLeaves · 25/11/2019 08:05

M&S food
Local butcher for meat

Ragwort · 25/11/2019 08:05

Coffee
Butter
Fairy Liquid
Mattress

I always buy my clothes from charity shops, can’t remember the last timeI bought new clothes, not necessarily being cheapskate but I used to work in the fashion industry and it’s such a pretentious world (wasn’t even ‘high end’ fashion Grin). I also think it is more ethical to buy second hand.

Bluesheep8 · 25/11/2019 08:05

Someone mentioned "good rice" upthread. What's good rice? Isn't rice just rice?

I spend on:
Organic/farm eggs
Perfume
Foundation
Tinned tuna (has to be steak not chunks)
Cat litter
Scented candles
Pesto

Ragwort · 25/11/2019 08:07

Blue that remind me that I do prefer Uncle Ben’s rice, it is much easier to cook without sticking, have tried cheaper rice but always seem to go back to UB (perhaps it’s my cooking).