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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To ask what you think is worth spending a bit extra on?

296 replies

ethelfleda · 24/11/2019 22:50

And what you think isn’t?
Can be anything - food, clothes, holidays etc etc?

For example, I’ve just bought some socks that are a cashmere blend and wonder how I could now ever go back to boring old cotton.
Likewise, I usually spend a bit more on coffee for good quality. But some food items such as tinned pulses - I don’t think it matters buying cheap.

What items do you spend a little more on because you think they’re worth it? And which do you buy the cheapest of because you can’t notice any difference?

Thanks for taking part in a mundane thread Smile

OP posts:
Dieu · 25/11/2019 01:34

Tea bags and bin bags.

RollOnNextYear · 25/11/2019 01:57

Decent shoes and coat for the dcs.
Soemthing my mum always said to myself and my siblings.. Even if we didn't have other things we always had decent shoes and warm coats

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 25/11/2019 02:02

Butter
Gin
Wine
Shoes (sturdy leather ones etc)
Carpets (And underlays!)
Bikes (within reason)

Purplecatshopaholic · 25/11/2019 02:09

Generally I do think you get what you pay for.
Pay more for quality footwear and clothes - want stuff to last.
Bedding - after I got some higher thread count bedding I couldn’t go back.
Bin bags, kitchen foil, kitchen roll and toilet roll.

Pay less for summer clothes (get covered in sun cream), and ‘fashion’ items that only last a season.

Shooturlocalmethdealer · 25/11/2019 02:10

Trash bags. Bread. Christmas gifts. Socks!
Bought my grandson wool socks.
He wont hardly take them off and he is almost 4.

itwaseverthus · 25/11/2019 02:25

I love Max Mara for coats and dresses (but they're everlasting or so it seems), can't see past Audi for cars, good olive oil, and general cooking ingredients. I would forego a new outfit if it meant I could buy decent food.

I can skimp on makeup, it's all face paint. So long as the canvas is ok, a cheap BB cream and some bog-standard stuff is fine. Fancy skincare is just lovely to use but does hee haw (other than retinol).

NEVER, EVER buy cheap cat litter. False economy.l

itwaseverthus · 25/11/2019 02:27

Oh and the seemingly expensive White Company bed and bed linen is still going strong and looking and feeling amazing twelve years on. A prime example of getting what you paid for. It was a bit ouchy at the time to spend on but my, if you can afford it, that stuff lasts!

Honeybee85 · 25/11/2019 04:21

Splurge:
Perfume
Good shoes (always leather)
Organic soap

Save:
Sanitary pads (just picked up a few packs for the equivalent of £1 each, they work just fine)
Always buy seasons veggies and fruit
Clothes for DS. He is a baby, outgrows his clothes in 3 months so whenever he needs something I check the baby clothes sales page on the H&M website, found some really lovely cheap things there.

Honeybee85 · 25/11/2019 04:22

And tea. I haven’t tried any better tea then Marriages Freres, unfortunately very pricey.

AlbertWinestein · 25/11/2019 04:40

Mattresses over bed linen
You can get great quality bed linen in all sorts of cheaper places if you look hard enough and buy it when you see it. You can’t beat an excellent mattress that will last you for years.

Destination over flight
We never pay more than basic for flights. I really don’t see the point. An overnight flight and a decent sleeping pill. Boom! But when I’m there and on holiday, there are no limits.

So that’s two to get me started.

CatShapedCushion · 25/11/2019 04:51

Another one for flights here..only decent airlines longhaul&now DC are here loving the all-inclusive resorts..massive swap from the late teen/20s spent backpacking&shoe-stringing r-t-w😂..oh&love my MizunoWave trainers cant deal with cheap running shoes..

Caledoniahasmyheartforever · 25/11/2019 05:07

Car seats - both children were rear facing until 3/4 (they are 10 and 12 now so I had to Import the seats from Sweden) and had the best tested high back boosters too. I honestly couldn’t put a price on my babies lives (particularly when my dh is epileptic albeit it’s been controlled and he has been seizure free for 8 years.)

Children’s shoes - I will happily buy second hand clothing for my children but they need measured and well fitting shoes. I don’t mean Clark’s shoes either as they are crap compared to how they used to be - Geox, primigi ...

In fact we buy the best we can for shoes for ourselves- my dh will get a new pair of timberlands every 18 months. I am a savvy shopper and get the best price possible.

Children’s winter coats- again I’m a savvy shopper but both children have had landsend expedition coats which with 40% discount as a new customer, plus an extra x% during summer sale, I bought £100 quality warm coats for £25 (I pre bought 2 different sizes for each of my children- I also buy bigger so they can grow into the coats) Both children are still in the coats, although I’m gutted they will outgrow the landsend kids section next size up! Likewise dd when little, had Boden duffle coats every year, that if not second hand, were bought from Boden sale at a large discount.

Real wool jumpers for dh- they last and look better for longer than cheap acrylic jumpers (I am also allergic to acrylic).

School uniform- I find it’s cheaper to buy better quality uniform at the start of the year, rather than having to replace half way.

iPad and phone cases! My kids iPads are sacred, not to mention very generous gifts from my brother, so they get the best case I can afford.

House phones- I spend a little more on our house phones as they are used everyday and I have watched my Mum with false economy buy cheaper house phones only for them to break within a year. Mum won’t spend more than £40 - (we spent £120 and have had our phones for 5 years) but has bought new phones at least once or twice a year.

Laptops/computer/ tablets/ mobiles- I would love to be able to afford a MacBook, which has always been what I would splurge on if we had the money. Likewise iPads have lasted so much longer than any kindle fire/ Samsung tablet we have had and the same with our mobiles. I have my Dads old iPhone and it is in fantastic condition.

Furniture- sofas/ beds/ mattresses - I will buy heavily used furniture the best quality I can find- although I will buy real wood furniture in local adds/ gumtree. My daughter has a beautiful ASPACE bed which was £50 from gumtree. Likewise ds has a solid STOMPA high sleeper that was £50 from gumtree. Mattresses we buy new- but we buy second hand solid wood furniture where we can. A good quality mattress is so important-!

Washing machine/ tumble dryer/ dishwasher/ hoover - anything that gets heavy usage, I buy German brands or best reviewed. After being told by repair men that they would only buy German brands.

We will buy a which subscription for checking reviews of any big purchase we make. I watch you tube reviews, check all different websites to get the best price and best product for our money.

Basically, anything we use a lot, I research and source the best at the best price we can fit into our budget.

dollybird76 · 25/11/2019 05:17

I spend more on:
Accommodation (comfort matters! Never 5 star but I won't book budget motels)
Hair products (Olaplex saves my lightened hair)
Long haul flights
Jeans
Skincare (I'm a skincare nerd and look for great ingredients, not just brand names though. No La Mer here!)
Boots

I'm cheap on
Pasta
Dinnerware (kids will smash it anyway!)
Appliances
Medication (no brand names, just generic)
Kids haircuts
Homewares like placemats or cushions(maybe I'm a weirdo but I'd sooner eat my arm than pay 80 bucks for a fancy cushion cover!)

Dongdingdong · 25/11/2019 05:17

Not spend more: Gin/wine. Cheapest you can get.

I’d say wine is one of the very worst things to go cheap on. Those enamel stripper varieties you get on the cheap taste utterly foul!

Dongdingdong · 25/11/2019 05:18

Got Dr Martin boots last year £125 look like new and I wear them ALOT, they will last at least another year.

£125 and they only last two years? I thought DMs were much hardier than that! I only have about three pairs of shoes and they’ve lasted about eight years so far.

recrudesence · 25/11/2019 05:28

Well I won’t compromise on caviar - only the best will do. However, I have been known to slum it with some fairly ordinary champagne.

cantfindname · 25/11/2019 05:29

Got to have decent coffee, Fairy and butter. Agree re the kitchen towels, cheapies are a waste of money. Although I use very little I have to have Heinz ketchup. Oh, and I refuse to compromise on eggs, they must be free range.

Cheapies. Discovered Tesco soup is as good as Heinz and only half the price so keep a tin of that in stock. Asda fake Marmite is better than the real thing and £1 less per jar. Most of my food is from the cheaper ranges, I am a decent cook and know how to improve it so no-one would guess.

OTOH my horses get the best carrots and apples Grin

Egghead68 · 25/11/2019 05:48

Splurge
Food - life’s too short to eat bad food
Mattresses - spend 8 hrs a day on them.

Save
Clothes and furniture - charity shops are fine
Meat/fish - totally unnecessary
Holidays (especially hotels) - day trips can be just as fun

helpasisterout · 25/11/2019 05:54

Spend more on -
All meat, eggs and dairy to ensure good welfare standards.
Jackets - I have 2/3 that were expensive but worn often and they have lasted well.

Spend less on -
Shampoo - expensive or 80p my hair just looks the same.
Clothes in general mostly come from charity shops.
Fizzy juices - own brand every time though I don't drink them much.

Hahaha88 · 25/11/2019 06:26

Spend more on:

Shoes and boots. Cheap ones aren't comfortable or durable.
Coat, needs to be decently waterproof but will look for sales
Mattress, cheap will not last! Well not unless you like sleeping on lumps
Fairy liquid (I've had the current (admittedly large) bottle for over 6 months!!
Eggs. Need to be free range
Cola. It's got to be Pepsi Max or coca cola.
Shampoo. I need SLS free

Save on:
Tinned goods
Dried foods
Fruit and vegetables
Anything that is designed to be used only for a short period.
Cleaning materials
Medications

bengalcat · 25/11/2019 06:38

Long haul flights business class

Appletreehouse · 25/11/2019 06:38

Coats and shoes for me and the kids
Ketchup
Mayonnaise
Baby wipes (water wipes)

Countryescape · 25/11/2019 06:40

Car seats, safe card, skincare, sunscreen, bedding, bras, foundation, waterproof jackets, running shoes

Mummadeeze · 25/11/2019 06:43

Theatre tickets. I only really enjoy it if we sit in the stalls near the front. Would rather save and go once a year than a few times in bad seats.

CustardOmlet · 25/11/2019 06:46

Shoes - every cheap pair I’ve bought have not lasted a season or are too uncomfortable to wear a second time. I’m looking for a decent pair of heels, I very rarely wear heels but would like a nice pair for special occasions that won’t kill.

Bags - I need a bag that will hold my crap and not fail me. My work rucksack has done 5yrs of battering and it still going very strong! Same goes for shopping bags!

Bike racks - a very unfortunate incident with a cheap rack has lead to a commitment to only buy decent racks (and having a tow bar on every car)

Cheese spread - Primula!!!!