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To ask you to share your and your partners mystery hobbies

170 replies

Grobagsforever · 24/11/2019 16:32

Because if I read another 'doing his hobby' I will scream.

IT'S NOT OUTING. THE VAST MAJORITY OF MALE PARTNERS ON HERE CYCLE, GOLF OR PLAY RUGBY/FOOTBALL.

I'll start. I don't have a hobby as I'm a lone parent with a FT job but I spend any leisure time reading. BF plays golf and take part in several orchestras.

OP posts:
alreadyinchristmasmood · 24/11/2019 17:02

My partner hikes (been with him a few times - my idea of proper hell)
I shop. No, kidding. I love theatre, decorating & reading. They're not "proper" hobbies according to some

BlackSwanGreen · 24/11/2019 17:03

I like reading and running.

DH plays in a band.

Aroundtheworldin80moves · 24/11/2019 17:03

DH : Guerilla Embroidery
Me: extreme hide and seek.

Maybe. Or maybe not. You decide.

Rosepetals30 · 24/11/2019 17:07

DH : football
Me: another pole dancer over here :)

EssentialHummus · 24/11/2019 17:09

DH does pottery, I like gardening and volunteering in the community.

OvalCanvas · 24/11/2019 17:13

He likes pc gaming.

I'm a (very cool) nail polish enthusiast.

spacepyramid · 24/11/2019 17:16

I suspect if I share what mine does it really will be outing. Let's just say it's traditional in our culture and leave it at that.

CheeseCakeSunflowers · 24/11/2019 17:22

Hi Harveypuss I also inhabit the secret world of Plain bob, Grandsire and Stedman.

Spacecudet · 24/11/2019 17:22

My hobby at the moment seems to be mumsnet! My DH plays in an orchestra.

stupidtabloidheadlines · 24/11/2019 17:22

My husband's hobbies appear to be eating and long-haul toilet visits.

DefConOne · 24/11/2019 17:23

Me: sing in a barbershop chorus
DH: urban exploration/19th century fort and WW2 defence spotting/trying to preserve old buildings in our city (he’s like Daddy Pig, obsessed with concrete).

Will have to name change now as this there can’t be many couples with our hobby combo.

BadgeronaMoped · 24/11/2019 17:24

Mine is knitting, DH's is motorbikes.

spacepyramid · 24/11/2019 17:25

I also inhabit the secret world of Plain bob, Grandsire and Stedman.

That's a hobby I'd like to try sometime.

MaggieMagpie1 · 24/11/2019 17:25

Amateur Dramatics for both of us...it's how we met. I've just started running and am amazed by how much I enjoy it. ☺

topcat2014 · 24/11/2019 17:26

Another bell ringer here, which I spice up with also being interested in old buses. I am truly a catch. DW likes art.

JustaScratch · 24/11/2019 17:26

My DH plays the cello.

His other hobby is reading football gossip.

Actually, that is quite outing Grin

Zofloramummy · 24/11/2019 17:28

I’m single and mine are knitting, sewing, reading and anything crafty.
My dd (8) loves drawing, knitting and creating art projects.

Apple didn’t fall far from the tree! Grin

saltysally · 24/11/2019 17:30

Climbing, freerunning and outdoor swimming

SimonJT · 24/11/2019 17:33

Boyfriend hiking (goes on hiking holidays with a special group) and playing football.

Me competitive exercise e.g 100 press up challenges etc and piano.

OP, I’m a working lone parent too, there are hobbies out there you can still do.

GreenyEye · 24/11/2019 17:34

I help my friends build track/drift cars. :) and we actually take them racing!

Yeahnahyeah1 · 24/11/2019 17:35

Me- horse riding, surfing, shooting, skiing whenever I can
Him- darts, shooting, snowboarding whenever he can!

00100001 · 24/11/2019 17:36

His are Dungeons and Dragons, cycling, jogging and Airsoft!

HobbyUnenthusiast · 24/11/2019 17:36

@spacepyramid I'm really hoping your post was a joke but just in case...

If it's traditional in your culture presumably many others from your culture enjoy the same hobby and therefore it's unlikely to identify you??

Can we also stop with the dramatics around "outing". Nobody is "outing" anybody else. Being 'outed' used to refer to somebody identifying somebody else as LGBT without their consent, which is potentially hugely traumatic and harmful. Not the same as Linda from down the road worrying that mentioning her love of historical re-enactments will identify her to a bunch of strangers on an Internet forum about whether or not her MIL is a pain in the arse.

supersop60 · 24/11/2019 17:38

Me - AmDram
DP - practising - he's a professional musician and spends every spare minute practising. No hobbies as such.

danmthatonestakentryanotheer · 24/11/2019 17:38

Mine is knitting, DH's is motorbikes

I read that without the comma and thought "wow that's amazing"...I need new glasses!

Him: PC gaming
Me: Cross stitch

we're so hardcore it hurts Grin

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