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healthylifestylee · 24/11/2019 10:35
I do all the laundry so I'd wash it. - id put it in the machine on the hand wash setting though or take to the dry cleaners if that wasn't an option
I have never stood over the sink and washed an item and I don't plan to start.
If it's a more delicate item it's washed on the delicate setting
healthylifestylee · 24/11/2019 10:36
Just now seen your comment of him wearing it once. DP will wear his more expensive items that require a faffy wash more than once and won't ask for it to be washed until he has done so and it actually requires a wash
Can you just put it away again if it doesn't smell or have anything spilt on it?
MrsJackRackham · 24/11/2019 10:43
If DP asked me to - Jack could you hand wash my jumper please? then yes I probably would. He does extra things for me if I ask. If he expected me to do it then that's entirely different. It's the assumption that would piss me off and the jumper would rot it the basket.
MyNewBearTotoro · 24/11/2019 10:45
I would be happy to stick it in the machine on a wool cycle if I usually did all washing (and assuming jobs are divvied up fairly in the household) but I wouldn’t be standing at the sink handwashing it. If he wants it hand washed he can do it himself.
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