Escorting to make ends meet

[secretlife81]

Just that really. I hate it. I absolutely hate it. But what else can I do?!

[AutumnCrow]

Good for you, and sorry if that sounds trite, but definitely 👍

[secretlife81]

Thank you autumn x

[Yarboosucks]

Yay! Good news, I really hope that you get the support that you need.
Be kind to yourself and take care

[Hellofromtheotherside2020]

Well done lovely

[itsAlmostXmas]

That's great OP. How are you feeling?

[Patroclus]

The naivety on here. Esorts are protitutes. No difference. Very rarely is 'dinner' involved ffs. Achingly liberal types will tell you its just a job but it isnt. Considerin your state of mind it will destroy you.

[Patroclus]

Could you say what sort of office work you did or anything else you have experience of OP?

[secretlife81]

Thanks

Patro, I'm not sure anyone thought it was about dinner. I have been taken for dinner as part of a booking but it always ended in sex. I didn't really see any naivety from anyone who posted. Just very supportive people.

My experience is in management consulting x

[Confusedbeetle]

It is going to make things worse

[Sstorm]

Wish i had the body for it myself! Good money, short hours.. Why not?

[NotEnoughTime]

Best of luck OP

Are you taking the piss Sstorm I hope you are. No one is that naive surely

[DaisyDreaming]

Do you think your depression might improve when you stop escorting? I can see how your stuck in a vicious cycle

[Patroclus]

Surely freelance stuff for management consulting is doable and well payed? maybe start another thread on here to find the right people and how to get started on your on terms?

[ThePortIsSunny]

Take your time op, well done in getting help and getting the ball rolling. Take as much time as you need to heal & be kind to yourself.

When you're ready these 2 sites advertise short temp contracts
www.ten2two.org/

[Patroclus]

the Job Centre does courses and schemes if you wanted to go freelance as well

[Katgurl]

I am so happy to read your update op. I was in tears reading the previous posts. Please do not feel ashamed though; you were trying to provide for your children.

[Butterymuffin]

Good luck

[outherealone]

I’m having trauma therapy atm too. I can’t imagine how it would work if I was then going out to get fucked by strangers for money. Please look after yourself and your body and your head. You are precious and have been through too much.
I’m assuming the trauma and dv have put in a place of dissociation from your physical self. I don’t know but it’s worryi.
Can’t you do something lie self employed cleaning if you really don’t want to do a salaried 9-5?
Not necessarily cleaning but not continuously getting used by men