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Singing along at a musical to cause such upset?

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cantbeatfreshsheets · 20/11/2019 14:45

I went to a musical yesterday with my parents & sister to celebrate my mums birthday. We had a really nice day & this was the last thing we had planned. Arrived a few mins late and got to our seats with no problems.

After about 20 mins in. A catchy song came on. It was Tina Turner. My mum sang along for a couple of times during the chorus. It was hard not too. The whole show was about her being oppressed. Which is exactly how we felt after what happens next.

The lady in front turned around. Looked at my mum & said could you please, then used her hand against her mouth to gesture my mum to zip it 🤐 very passive aggressive.

Mum looked at us as if to say. What the F**
Anyway. She said I'll have to speak to her at the interval. Meanwhile I just thought what a spoilsport?!?! If you can't sing along at a musical what's wrong with the world. It's not like she was singing at the top of her voice???

It resulted with the lady in front going to make a complaint about my mum as mum tapped her on the shoulder and said during the interval How dare you tell me how to behave. My mum ended up going to see the manager herself where the other women was acting like we were trying to victimise her for not being happy against us telling her it was a free country. They said we were aggressive and being unreasonable?!?!

She said. It said on the way in you can't sing. We said. Well we didn't see that notice as we were late. We ended up leaving as my mum was so cross. There was a slight scene. The other woman was behaving like a child in my opinion. Has the world has gone mad.

My sister and I told her that she had spoilt our mums birthday and She was clearly enjoying playing the victim. I think she was probably shocked we confronted her over it.

We left. Were we being unreasonable? Or has the world gone crazy? I'd love to hear you're thoughts.

OP posts:
Beveren · 23/11/2019 15:13

I've been to the theatre many times and it never occurred to me to sing, but then I'm not sure I would have seen anything wrong with someone singing along.

Seriously, @lboogy? You've paid a lot of money to go to the theatre, and you find you can't hear properly because someone's singing (almost certainly out of tune and probably with the wrong words) in the seat behind you, no-one else in the theatre is doing that, but it wouldn't occur to you that there was anything wrong? Would you also not see anything wrong with someone chanting along with a Hamlet soliloquy?

Beveren · 23/11/2019 15:13

Great minds think alike, SDTG!

Comefromaway · 23/11/2019 15:52

All we need now is for Auntie Willy to come & comment on here.

JudasHisCarrot · 23/11/2019 15:54

Thanks heron, will have a search!

midsomermurderess · 23/11/2019 17:26

What's Hamlet? Can you hum it for the OP?

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 23/11/2019 17:30

The screaming in the Sistine chapel thread is here.

AlexaAmbidextra · 23/11/2019 18:10

I don’t know why posters keep saying they’re sorry that OP’s mum’s birthday was ruined. She ruined it her fucking self, along with spoiling it for other audience members. She deserves no sympathy at all.

SchadenfreudePersonified · 23/11/2019 18:26

What's Hamlet? Can you hum it for the OP?

Da- DA - da da da DA.

Da da da da dada.

dada da da - oh, fuckit!

Just hum along just any old how OP. You'll be fine. Envy

doritosdip · 23/11/2019 20:28

If you want to sing along, all you need to do is hire the entire theatre and cast and musicians and stage technicians privately yourself.

Or see if it's on DVD. (I had a quick look on Amazon but could only find the CD soundtrack)

Paddington68 · 25/11/2019 15:45

You arrived late at the theatre OP?
Did you not know what time it began?
Was a time not printed on your ticket?

Taddda · 25/11/2019 17:50

I'm so glad I've read this....off to see Book of Mormon in the new year and been practicing my belt out rendition of 'I believe'....Shock....might have a rethink

bruffin · 25/11/2019 17:58

Not Hasa Diga Eebowai Taddada

Taddda · 25/11/2019 18:12

My second number bruffin...a difficult 'belt out' that one....maybe just a jump about the aisle...

Comefromaway · 25/11/2019 18:55

Careful you don’t wriggle about too much. People might think you have maggots in your scrotum.

theautisticeducator · 01/12/2019 05:55

Is she Autistic?

BerryPieandCustard · 01/12/2019 08:19

During the summer I took my 8 year old to watch Wicked, she had wanted to see it for a couple of years but I had put it off until she was older and more able to sit still and quietly. I booked the isle seats so that in case I did have to leave that we would cause minimal disruption. She loved it, sat beautifully still and quiet and was complemented on her behaviour during the interval by the women behind us.

Surely if an 8 year old can manage basic theatre etiquette your mum can 🙄🙄🙄

hutchingsbj · 01/12/2019 09:04

Unless its a sing along you do not sing at a musical. You pay to hear the professional singers...the cast sing...not some random audience member. Your actions were ill informed.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 01/12/2019 14:06

I absolutely love the Nutcracker ballet, and have watched several versions on the tv/you tube, and I am very excited to be going to see it live, in January.

When I am watching alone, at home, I hum along with the music, and occasionally conduct too - but there is no way I would dream of doing this in the theatre!

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 01/12/2019 14:06

I could attempt a few steps in the aisle, though - what do you all think? WinkGrin

Dolorabelle · 01/12/2019 15:42

Oh yes!!! SDTG - I'm taking my pointe shoes to the production of Nutcracker I'm attending next week. I'm joining on on the Sugar Plum Fairy dance.

Because anyone who complains is a boring sad person who likes pretending to be victimised. After all, it's a free country.

neonlight · 01/12/2019 18:09

also hate people who talk and use mobile phones throughout gigs. wonder why they actually go to these things.

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