DH goes to his Xmas party, I'm not allowed

[1Supersonic]

Hi I would like some advice.

I work part-time and DH works full time. He stops me attending any functions outside of work where he can. Last year there was a works team meal and he put obstacles in my way so I couldn't attend. I have never had the chance to attend the work Christmas party. He always invents a reason that I cannot go. I know if I did get around it he would make my life a misery.

Now he is going to a works Christmas meal and I feel annoyed. How come he is allowed out and I am not.

[Thehop]

Start making your plans to leave.make this your last Christmas for you and your son to live in misery

[Mushypeasandchipstogo]

Not sure if it is relevant but where I work partners are not allowed to our Christmas dos, same with my DH’s work. If this is not the case here then your ‘DH’ is a controlling knob.

[ISawyouinTescoyesterday]

Mmm I would not be happy with this.

[Mishappening]

I do not think you should live like this. It is so wrong,

To manipulate you by threatening to withdraw childcare is beyond bad. It is disgraceful.

[Branleuse]

this is the guy that is teaching your son how to be a man and how to treat women