DH goes to his Xmas party, I'm not allowed

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Hi I would like some advice.

I work part-time and DH works full time. He stops me attending any functions outside of work where he can. Last year there was a works team meal and he put obstacles in my way so I couldn't attend. I have never had the chance to attend the work Christmas party. He always invents a reason that I cannot go. I know if I did get around it he would make my life a misery.

Now he is going to a works Christmas meal and I feel annoyed. How come he is allowed out and I am not.

Start making your plans to leave.make this your last Christmas for you and your son to live in misery

Not sure if it is relevant but where I work partners are not allowed to our Christmas dos, same with my DH’s work. If this is not the case here then your ‘DH’ is a controlling knob.

Mmm I would not be happy with this.

I do not think you should live like this. It is so wrong,

To manipulate you by threatening to withdraw childcare is beyond bad. It is disgraceful.

this is the guy that is teaching your son how to be a man and how to treat women