What a shitty bit of news.
I have some empathy, as my fiancee is going through 6 weeks of daily radiotherapy, and 6 weekly chemo, all at the same time.
She's just finished her third week, so only 3 to go!
It started in June when at a dental check up, they found a lump in her throat. Within 4 weeks, she had approx 8 different x-rays, CT scans and MRIs, some with/out a dye.
Were out most weekends, shopping for Christmas decorations n nibbles (I know, it's hard knowing it's in the flat, but can't touch!) and today we got some drinks in mmmmmm.
Last year she was hit with sepsis, and was just starting to enjoy life again. Her Rhumatoid Arthritis (an autoimune disorder) was back to normal levels, and considering if she might go back to work, even if part time. She was fit n healthy before she.met me! lol
Hopefully that is her three things‽
Oh, me? Well I'm disabled with spinal problems (4 collapsed n bulging disc in lower back, trapped nerves, and about the same.in the neck) and achalasia and IBS and a few other things, along with a good three different mental health issues .... Oh the joys 🤪
It's a shit, hopefully after your current treatment, your feet can touch the floor and you can enjoy being a.mum again.
Don't lose hope, and focus on the future 😁
YANBU. unless you just sit there n abandon hope, and say... Poor me.
Pull up ya tights, and deal with this, and aim high. Be.friends with those you see in the hospital (i.mean the patient's you see every visit) as I know the Mrs looks forward to seeing those going through the fight at the same time. She comes home on days I can't go out.... I saw Mrs ??? Today, it's her last week, or Mr ???? he's rung the bell today etc.
If.you aim for the moon, you might miss and hit a star, but if you don't aim high you'll never reach it.