Oliversmumsarmy: you were lucky. Yes, you and your family worked hard, but so have a lot of other people
Pmsl
When I was going to bed on the sofa in the freezing cold living room with a pillow with no pillowcase and what ever blankets and coats could be found to keep me warm.
When we had to shred newspaper and make a papier-mâché gloop to be stuck between the single skin brickwork to stop being able to see outside and to stop the wind whistling in when the pointing between the bricks crumbled
When the police knocked the door down (on a semi regular basis) at 5am and dragged the male members of the family off because someone 5 streets away had been burgled and it was obviously one of the immigrant families
When the only time myself and my cousin were taken to a pantomime we were jeered because we were on the bus with the poor children who were going to see it for free
When no one would give my family work because of where we were from.
When the only food on the table had to be rationed among 10 people
And a hell of a lot more day to day ways we had to live to put food on the table and try and get us out of the slum we lived in
Remember we didn’t have any form of help in terms of benefits.
If my family didn’t work, we didn’t eat and we didn’t have a roof over our heads.
There was non of this going through the courts and having months to sit around doing nothing if you couldn’t afford your rent and the landlord (the council) had to go through the proper channels in order to get you out.
They just sent in bailiffs to put your furniture and stuff in the streets and strong arm you out of the house if you got a couple of months behind in your rent.
Remembering it happening to a family up the road.
So if you think we were lucky then everyone else must have lived a completely blessed life.
I don’t think I ever thought of myself as having a particularly lucky childhood and still don’t.
If you say that people who live in extreme poverty are lucky then why are we helping these “lucky” people by giving them benefits or access to food banks?
We should just tell them how lucky they are and leave them to it