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AIBU?

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AIBU to refuse to wear my work uniform?

302 replies

Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 18:31

Hi, sorry this is a very boring AIBU. I recently got a new job and filled out a sheet regarding uniform. The options are small, medium, large and extra large and I picked small (I’m a size 6/8 and very petite)

The uniform came today and I tried it on when I got home, it is HUGE! The polo shirt is so long it almost goes to my knees and and the jacket could fit me in twice. I look absolutely ridiculous. AIBU to refuse to wear the uniform? They have told me they don’t do extra small Confused

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Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:03

@Hahaha88 do you know what I have better things to do than come on MN and make up I have an extra large ridiculously big uniform. I’d just wear it? Halloween Hmm

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Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:04

@Hahaha88 why not wait to post a picture... because I didn’t realise this was a court case where I had to provide significant evidence. I’m asking for some light hearted advice. Who clapped in your cornflakes this morning

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LtJudyHopps · 14/11/2019 19:05

Tie the t-shirt-polo with a hairband at the back and fold underneath so it’s a better length. But do it after they’ve seen how big it is tomorrow!

Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:06

@LtJudyHopps Ohhh great idea! I used to do this with my t shirts as a kid to make them into crop tops 🤣

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Hahaha88 · 14/11/2019 19:06

If you don't need to "provide evidence" I don't need to see it before saying yanbu.
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Candle1000 · 14/11/2019 19:06

I work in a hospital and we have a sewing / uniform room , the staff there are always altering uniforms .

Hahaha88 · 14/11/2019 19:06

*yabu

Hahaha88 · 14/11/2019 19:07

Plus I'm not saying it's not large or you're making it all up. Just it seems very unlikely a small uniform is so huge you couldn't possibly wear it

TSSDNCOP · 14/11/2019 19:08

Well to be fair you did say you weren't going to wear it OP.

Does the polo need to be tucked in? Lop the bottom off and just quick hem round for tomorrow.

I suppose you have checked the actual measurements in case the wrong size label has been sewn in?

Straycatstrut · 14/11/2019 19:08

I'd wash it on hottest and then dry it on hottest.

It's not fair if they do XL & XXL but not XS really is it.

Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:08

What? Hmm

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Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:09

@TSSDNCOP well I was mortified at first, I’ve calmed down now Grin it’s still ridiculous though.
I’m going to get it altered if they can’t swap it

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Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:10

@Straycatstrut no I agree it’s not fair, but ive been told on here not to compare clothes being too big to being to small Hmm

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pumpkintree · 14/11/2019 19:12

Measure the bust and length, then ask them what spec the polo shirt should be? Or check label it could be labelled wrong.

thenightsky · 14/11/2019 19:12

Can you just turn up in your own clothes? Something smart like plain black trousers and a plain shirt and jacket? Put the uniform in a bag and take it with you. When you get there, pull the uniform out of the bag and tell them you think they've sent the wrong size. I'm sure they'll be more embarrassed than you.

MotherOfSoupDragons · 14/11/2019 19:14

Surely it's a Large, incorrectly labelled as Small.

Twintastica · 14/11/2019 19:15

how about a belt on the polo shirt, so it's more of a dress?

TellMeWhoTheVilliansAre · 14/11/2019 19:15

Obvious question but have you checked you've actually been given a small?

saraclara · 14/11/2019 19:15

Just turn up wearing it (and have another top in your bag in case they let you change). The only thing that's going to make them do anything about it is if they see you in it.

Eckhart · 14/11/2019 19:16

See if there's anyone the roughly the same size as you and see how they're managing it, or if they've been given a more appropriately sized uniform.

Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:17

@TellMeWhoTheVilliansAre yep! @Grin ive checked with my partners medium polo shirt he wears for work (he’s an electrician) and it’s only a tiny bit smaller!

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Keepmewarm · 14/11/2019 19:17

I always have to take in uniforms. It’s a ‘perk’ to being small.

Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:18

@MotherOfSoupDragons I think so. If not I dread to see the large size!

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Pussinboots25 · 14/11/2019 19:18

@Keepmewarm maybe it’s the norm then! I’ve never usually had a problem

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simplekindoflife · 14/11/2019 19:21

This doesn't sound right... my guess is you've got a dodgy batch or a men's small uniform.

Wear it tomorrow and show them it's too big.

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