Taxation shouldn’t be seen as a punishment, it should be seen as contributing to a well functioning society where earners at all levels can thrive and nobody goes hungry and homeless just because their skills and contributions don’t command the same salary.
Taxation is seen as a punishment by many because they have no control over how it is spent. It's rarely the amount that people have to pay they begrudge, it's where they believe it is going.
Now there is a lot of misconception there, and that certainly fuels the resentment. The media are severely to blame there, but at the same time, there is such misconception that people who do well do so because they had more opportunities than those who don't when in the last majority of cases, they do because they've made sacrifices, or investment that others have opted not to make.
Most of the people I know who are doing well had no better opportunities than those I know who are not as comfortable financially. The latter have tended to prioritise their family life and are 'richer' that way.
It does sometimes feel that it is ok to begrudge those who have more money, but never those who are richer in different ways, through having more time for themselves, richer relationships with their family because they had more time and energy to give them.
If you take two brothers, one whose become CEO but by working long hours, being stressed all the time, he has lost his wife who got tired of become second all the time, has poor relationships with his kids because he never really gave them the attention they deserved, and feel awkward with his parents because he's moved miles away from home and has rarely seen them in the last 40 years.
His brother opted for a less demanding professional life, working in low management, 4 days a week, 9-5. He has been married for 30 years, has raised 4 great children who had the chance to take to after school activities, go to their soccer games, ballet shows, took them to the doctors, got up at night to give them a cuddle when they were scared. He got to see his parents every week-ends and love going there for their Sunday roast. He might not have much money, but he is Rich emotionally.
Would anyone begrudge him, say that since he has so more time for himself, he should give back to society and be forced to spend his day off helping people in need, volunteering in a career home, hospital, school?
I never read threads talking about the selfishness of people who have more time for themselves and give it to their family instead of society. It's easy target the rich and critisize them for being selfish with their money, and not consider that other people are as selfish with other richness in lives.