I think when people say ‘I work / worked hard’ they are often not comparing themselves to others who work...they are comparing themselves to a particular group of people whom their tax is paying for.
It is right that tax is used to support:
Those who might have some form of disability
Emergency situations e.g. redundancy
Services e.g. NHS
Etc
But, you cannot deny that the welfare system also spends a lot of money on people who:
Are more than able, but spend their days drinking or smoking weed
Claim to be separated and live separately, but who are actually together (I know a few of these)
Refuse to get a low paid job, because they’ll be ‘no better off’
Don’t like work
Work cash in hand and claims as well
A family member of mine has played the system her whole life. She knows what I think of her. She only worked a few days here and there. She felt entitled not to work, because she doesn’t like it. She had massive inheritance and blew it very quickly just to get rid of the money, as she wanted to plan to use social care in elderly adulthood and not pay herself. She then sold her inherited house and did the same. When universal credits came in, it became harder to manipulate the system, so she suddenly became disabled and unable to walk without a stick. It would be comical if it wasn’t such a irritation.
She enjoyed her life watching TV in bed with a pack of cigarettes and cake. Went to the pub in the evening, picking up takeout on the way home. She also uses food banks.
There are genuine people who deserve to be looked after by the tax payer. And services that need to be paid for.
Then there are too big of numbers of people who shouldn’t be benefiting from the welfare system and it’s not fair. That’s where I feel people are justified (even those in low paid jobs) to say I work hard for my money).
People might say a small number of people play the system. It’s not. The numbers are too high and cost us a lot of money.
By comparison my friends husband lost his job. They had a big mortgage and bills etc and a lovely home. They couldn’t get any help from the state because she was in part time work and earned above the threshold....yet is wasn’t enough for them to keep their house.
So when people say the work hard, they mean, why should I pay more tax to support ever growing numbers of benefits users, some who would be quite capable of getting off their arses or shaping up and getting a job to take the pressure off everyone else. (But would never begrudge paying for the genuine).
Of course, I’m expecting people to say ‘some people have mental health conditions and fell into drugs because the Tories pushed them there...bla bla bla’. I personally believe in making people more responsible to empower them, rather than giving them the excuses they need to do nothing.