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To be concerned about dd’s weight even though bmi is fine

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trainofhearts · 19/10/2019 20:14

Dd is 10. Loves (crap) food, not that keen on sport.

She is definitely ‘rounded’ and has a belly.
nhs bmi calculator puts her at around 70th percentile
A good proportion of my time and headspace is taken up limiting her food intake without making an issue of it.

I cook healthy meals and provide a good balance but she often leaves most of the protein element and eats as few vegetables as she can get away with. Then she’s hungry later and ends up eating toast or (plain) cereal.

At parties she will inhale junk food and is known for finishing her friend’s portions.

I’m concerned that as she goes to high school and I have less ‘control’ she will eat even more crap food. I have no doubt that if I didn’t constantly monitor her intake she would eat a lot more.

Exercise wise it’s also a constant struggle. I don’t want to put her off but she dislikes getting out of breath or anything competitive. She likes walking and climbing.

She is aware that she has a different figure to her sporty friends and also to some who are already more of a ‘grown up’ shape and a few who are v over weight but not overly bothered at this stage.

OP posts:
BikeTart2 · 22/10/2019 17:35

At her age it is her weight for height that is indicative, not BMI.

trainofhearts · 22/10/2019 18:40

I’m not setting any bmi goals-I’m just saying that the article you linked to suggests this as an approach.
I’ve got your point thank you.

OP posts:
lazylinguist · 22/10/2019 18:50

She is a healthy weight. Just keep serving your normal nutritious meals, but don't let her fill up on cereal and toast later if she's left stuff that she doesn't actually actively dislike. Regardless of her weight,it's important that she eats veg etc, rarher than leaving it because she knows she'll get to fill up on crap later.

Yellowjammer · 31/10/2019 20:40

My DD is similar. It’s weird how I keep reading that we’ve lost sight of what a healthy weight looks like when I can see dd is chubby but her Bm I is apparently fine.
I’m hoping it’s puberty and she’s due a big growth spurt.

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