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To leave the children at home while they’re napping?

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ParkLife123 · 17/10/2019 16:43

Please hear me out.

House has a driveway outside, and then the street. On the other side of the street is a playground which my DS aged 4 loves. We go out there to play as often as we can but usually all four of us (me, DS, his younger brother aged 2, and newest addition our 5 month old baby).

I’m considering, in order to be able to spend a little quality 1:1 time with DS, taking him occasionally across the street while the other two nap. House is alarmed. I have baby monitors looking into their cots - the two year old cannot get out of his cot yet and in any case there’s also a baby gate at the door.

But really any sign of movement or noise from either of them and I get an alert on my phone.

The time it takes to get back home from the playground realistically is around 1 minute.

Is this a terrible idea? I’ve thought about the risks of them choking or something but also think that I would be able to get back home in the same time as it would take me to get to them if I was for example in the shower!

Does it sound fine or is it a risk no one else would take?

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ChilledBee · 24/10/2019 14:38

Oh I agree (and I'm sure they would too) that going to the park is too far but it was when it broke down into leaving the room to pee that I found it ridiculous.

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To leave the children at home while they’re napping?
LochJessMonster · 24/10/2019 14:43

I was all for 'no' but now the op has posted a picture and its a cul de sac, I might do it. But actually I would leave the front door unlocked so its quicker to get inside if anything happens.

Aridane · 24/10/2019 20:45

No, no, no
If something happened you’d never forgive yourself.

Whereas you would totally forgive yourself if something happened while you were having a shower, crap, hoovering next

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