Do people really make their partners "wash their willy"?

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Years ago I was friends with a girl who casually mentioned in a conversation that when she and her boyfriend are in the throws, and she decides to perform fellatio (great word), she'd make him wash his willy first.

I've now, ten years later, stumbled across a similar comment being made on a TV show I'm watching. This time the guy is required to do so before any sexual encounter.

Maybe I'm just lucky because my husband is a well-kept, clean guy...

AIBU to think that willy washing before sex etc. would take away from the moment?

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Christ Inky. Have you spoken to your other half about this?

@DustyMaiden just did explosive snort-laugh at zoflora & minky

I can't believe all this stuff about not having sex till you've showered. Eh?

Or all these posts about sperm stinking! It doesn't. Shouldn't.

Or circumcision. This is not the USA where it's more the done thing. It's NOT the norm for the UK.

And no. It doesn't and shouldn't smell. It is only recommended to pull back the foreskin and wash with warm water daily. It shouldn't smell!

@Themyscira 😂😂😂

I prefer to be freshly showered before sex and I prefer the person l am having sex with to be likewise. Clean teeth too. Sometimes though, that is not practical and a wipe has to do. Not for the teeth!!!

I’m an oral princess, l love giving and receiving. I wonder how many are put off oral because of the poor hygiene habits of the person they are having sex with?

No and having to shower and brush teeth beforehand is weird. There are a lot of germaphobes on this site

What a passion killer to have to stop mid moment and go and have a wash! If people are generally clean and shower at least once a day surely that’s fine?! I’m shocked at some of the replies here, what about getting so caught up in the moment you don’t care? All seems very cold and clinical, like some weird sort of hygiene experiment!

I've never thought to tell dp to wash first! He's circumcised so very clean.

I wonder what happens when the world's of a pre-showerer and non pre-showerer collide.

Short lived relationship.

I do love when people try to out ming each other on here. If you want to put a sweaty cock in your gob then crack on. It's not unreasonable for others not to want to do that and it doesn't kill the mood either.

Personally, I've never met a bloke who objects to washing first if he thinks he's going to get some of that shit. The ones that do mind aren't worth bothering with.

I wonder what happens when the world's of a pre-showerer and non pre-showerer collide.

The pre-showerer converts the non-pre showerer by making the pre-shower part of foreplay, a joint activity and makes sure they have an amazing time

For those who shower before bed - doesn't having wet hair get annoying? Don't you end up with soggy pillows? (Slight derail)

My tarpaulin doubles as a pillow protector, @DatsunCogs. It's really quite versatile.

Well, usually 'willy washing' would have been done in advance, eg he would have had a shower or bath earlier. So would I! No one wants close contact with the unwashed but to ask partner to wash genitals immediately before sexual contact might be a bit much. Just make sure he has abluted earlier.

I used to insist ex cleaned before sex, but then, his hygiene wasn't good.

I never knew this was a thing. I once surprised a bf who was working late, he nipped to the loo and then took me into the board room I guess he'd decided to clean himself up because all I could taste was soap, it was gross.

I must be tight because blow jobs are a special occasion type of thing in our house.

We don't live together so I assume that if we are meeting we are fucking. With that in mind we both tend to be freshly showered. I don't mind if he tastes of me for round 2. If he stays over we do tend to have a morning shower if we are planning on more oral but it tends to be a shower together rather than me sending him off to the bathroom to rinse his bits in the sink!

Yep, I do and I have no shame in saying that. I also would wash my bits before oral too. Who wants to taste stale dick?

Sloeginclub for some reason your post has had me laughing so hard, I have tears coming down. Just the way you worded it 😂

Just a quick dangle in the sink is well grim. I insist on a quick buff and polish on my husband’s Nob Jonty...

Circumcision is world's apart from fgm.

And circumcision is cleaner, if I had sons I'd be doing their future partners a favour.

And thank goodness non washers and washers can all have their cake and eat it. Why all the Faux surprise and sarcasm that other people do something differently? I'm sure we are not all having sex in the exact same way?

And circumcision is cleaner, if I had sons I'd be doing their future partners a favour

As opposed to teaching them how to wash? I can just see the conversation now ' don't worry love, I mutilated him at birth so you can suck him off without him having to give it a wash first... Wink wink'

Washing doesn't stop all smeg building up.

Good technique keeps it at bay but that piece of skin is unneeded, so why not get rid of it from the beginning.