@shwingshwing Nobody is saying that choking should be normalised, because not everyone is into it, and there are some people who should never even attempt it for whatever reason.
The thing is the tweet does normalise choking during sex, imo. This thread has lost it's way because people are talking across each other and debating whose preference is right or wrong, that's not the deciding factor in whether the tweet is reckless or not.
You could have a similar tweet along the lines of casual drug use which although not that common or recommended for everyone...alot of people do and enjoy and never have a problem. Even though there are big potential dangers associated with choosing to do it and many people come a cropper and get messed up from it. Some people have a line of coke now and then and enjoy it, some people ruin or lose their lives and cause misery for themselves and everyone they know.
Personal experience is relevant but it's not decisive.
The poster starts the tweet off with "when you're choking a girl during sex" not "for people who are in a consenting and safe situation and choose to try choking" ... that is the kind of thing that creates an expectation in people that every partner they have is up for that.
There's also an implication (albeit reading between the lines) that there's people doing this on a consistent basis and never realising that they're doing something dangerous. It's almost, hey are you still putting someone in danger when you choke them?
It's not even good advice. If you read it how it's written (a lot of people here are reading their own experiences into it) it's saying that when a dude is choking a girl and doing it in a highly dangerous way he should wise up and do it this way instead. Really if you read the tweet and recognise your own actions would it not make sense to stop doing it rather than have a crack at doing it the right way as per some guy on Twitter?