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Is he selfish or am I controlling?

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Surrealreal · 28/09/2019 08:16

Posting for outside perspective as I may be completely deluded in which case I need putting straight.

Context is: DP regularly goes out for events for a hobby he's heavily involved in. So he's not going out for fun or because he wants to as such, let's say the hobby takes him away from home quite a lot though.

Situation is: DP let me know on Thursday that he would be going away for the weekend for an event to take part in it. He left that evening and he'll be back on Sunday.
I didn't have anything to say about it, mainly because I'm feeling full of cold (I think, the kids have had it and passed it on, it's knocked me for six) and really unwell with it. I have a lot on this weekend. Now I'm sat feeling quite resentful!

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Surrealreal · 28/09/2019 20:41

Thank you Thanks

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WhoKnewBeefStew · 29/09/2019 07:51

What do you get out of this relationship OP? Or is it now just habit and circumstance that keeps the status quo?

mummmy2017 · 29/09/2019 15:01

Just caught up on this thread .
Well he is a charmer, and he expects you to bow down and worship him for his talent.
I know what I would be telling him and the sentence ends in ... Off .
Your not wrong.
Your being used, disrespected and deserve so much more.

leomama81 · 29/09/2019 21:34

Are you OK OP?

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