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I don’t think any kind of “unity” is possible - the best we can hope for is peaceful parallel lives

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Really222 · 27/09/2019 06:09

On the News yesterday, I caught the tail end of a report about Brexit and the fishing industry. A woman who runs two businesses has already lost 40K preparing for a possible no deal, but maintains that she would vote leave again.

When asked why, she said she had voted not for herself but for the good of the country as a whole, and for her grandchildren.

Another fisherman was interviewed. In his opinion we have to leave, deal or no deal, and no deal is fine, as long as we leave.

I am speaking from a remain point of view, but I hear stuff like the above and now feel a level of despair.

Presumably there are leavers who feel the same way about what they would consider to be extreme remain positions.

So when the PM talks about unity, he and others are totally deluded IMO. I think the best we can hope for is people getting on with others inside their own communities, but having very little understanding of or empathy for what is going on for other communities. Maybe it has always been like this.

I think whatever the outcome now, many people will feel bitter for a long time.

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Symptomless · 28/09/2019 16:54

UK never had unity throughout its history. There's always some type of 'us vs them' thing going on.

Really222 · 28/09/2019 21:14

@MonnaLisa thanks for your message - I think that the three year long stress of what has been going on is really taking its toll, and of course it is much worse for people like you, who have had to suffer and are suffering the direct consequences of the referendum and the way it has since been managed.

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SerendipityJane · 30/09/2019 17:05

You know they say "I saw this and thought of you" ?

I saw this, and though of this thread ....

I don’t think any kind of “unity” is possible - the best we can hope for is peaceful parallel lives
darkriver19886 · 30/09/2019 17:22

Me and my friend have an uneasy silence about Brexit. I voted remain. He didn't vote but, supports leave. I am more cross he didn't vote then what he supports.

However, I am able to maintain a friendship with him.

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