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to think MN is being infiltrated by Huns?

467 replies

BendyLikeBeckham · 31/08/2019 13:27

So much love, babe, hun and xxxx on here lately.

I'm getting viper withdrawal.

Am I imagining it?

Thanks in advance x

Grin
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multivac · 02/09/2019 21:30

So at the risk of sounding terribly condescending

Risk assessment: 100%.

Sagradafamiliar · 02/09/2019 22:25

I'm not sure why you're showing me a post of yours from Saturday, green.
I just passed comment on your post today where you claimed that you'd been subconsciously signing off with a 'x' because of archaic Christian traditions but just didn't realise it until you googled its significance.

UnaCorda · 02/09/2019 22:27

Arch wit, my arse. Posting one sentence responses that always paraphrase to "you're fucking pathetic" is apparently wit these days.

Quite. Hmm

ErrolTheDragon · 02/09/2019 22:48

Or one word and an emoticon...

obligations · 02/09/2019 23:02

This reminds me of all those threads a few years back about 'chavs'. Class war and snobbery still alive and well on MN!

BendyLikeBeckham · 02/09/2019 23:15

What has class to do with hunnery, @obligations?

This thread isn't about chavs and I find that word and your comparison offensive.

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obligations · 03/09/2019 00:17

I didn't say it was about 'chavs', I didn't endorse that word, I said it reminds me of threads when people on MN used that word (and the adjective 'chavvy') freely. It reminds me of that in terms of posters asserting their supposed superiority over another group described and invented by the media in terms of the policing of language and the enforcement of boundaries of who does or doesn't belong on Mumsnet, with this talk of infiltration, mindset etcetera.

Leftielefterson · 03/09/2019 00:22

@obligations 🙌

(And yes, I’m bloody well using emoji’s that are not not on MN, skin me alive!).

obligations · 03/09/2019 00:35

Leftielefterson thanks hun XXX Wink😘😛🙌🏾

BendyLikeBeckham · 03/09/2019 08:07

@obligations I am struggling to see what point you are trying to make with that odd description.

And can you answer my first question about class war?

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Sagradafamiliar · 03/09/2019 08:31

Good point well made, obligations

ethelfleda · 03/09/2019 10:06

To be fair to obligations they aren’t the first person who mentioned class on this thread. I forget the poster but it was a long, faux-intellectual post using the term ‘proletariat’ (which if I remember correctly is an outdated term that means ‘working class’)

BendyLikeBeckham · 03/09/2019 11:31

I just wrote a post and lost it Angry

Anyway, gist was that several PP supposedly supporting hunnery have mentioned class and snobs but I don't see how that is linked, and nobody has explained it to me when I've asked.

In fact, those references indicate snobbery on their part to me!

The posts went something like "stop bashing the . They are tolerable/pleasant/poor/uneducated but not their fault and I don't mind them because I'm tolerant and like diversity." Hmm

I bloody adore Love Island btw! Not even joking.

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ethelfleda · 03/09/2019 11:38

Bendy
I agree with you.

I was the one who made the Love Island comparison by the way but please take it as tongue in cheek. Besides, I can’t talk as I love Made in Chelsea Wink

BendyLikeBeckham · 03/09/2019 12:09

@ethelfleda Grin

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LaMarschallin · 03/09/2019 12:18

Besides, I can’t talk as I love Made in Chelsea

But not TOWIE?!

Snob! Wink

BendyLikeBeckham · 03/09/2019 13:07

Real Housewives of series are brilliant.

Bit sad that JK has been cancelled! Shock Sad And I love Take a Break Grin Not being ironic.

I digress the thread...

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obligations · 03/09/2019 14:02

BendyLikeBeckham ok - seeing as you asked - in my experience/reading, 'huns' is a stereotype of lower middle class or working class women who express themselves in particular ways deemed overly sentimental/emotional/coy/stupid by others, the others being people who espouse values typically associated with the middle class/upper middle class including restraint/straight-talking/plainness in expression.

The idea that 'lower' classes are somehow excessively expressive in manner/speech/clothing has a long history in Britain (and elsewhere). It's often rooted in supposedly Protestant values and this idea of lack of restraint/overly-decorative expression (in speech/clothes/interiors/whatever has for a long time associated 'lower' classes/'others' (eg, Irish, 'foreigners', 'non-u') and denotes a lack of continence/inability to rule themselves/not to be trusted/undesirable etc. It's a phenomenon that has been analysed for decades by various cultural historians/anthropologists/sociologists (eg Bourdieu in Distinction: A Social Critique of the Judgement of Taste, 1979)

That's what I mean by class war being alive - a snobbishness with long historical roots that seeks to assert superiority through championing certain taste in use of language (or whatever).

Oh - and the little square of brown is that when choosing an emoji, it's possible to change the skin tone from a default of pinkish-white to various shades of brown, sometimes used to reflect that the person using the emoji wants to express their skin tone. Mumsnet settings, however, doesn't support this so instead the default pink-white is used, with the chosen shade of brown appearing beside it as a small rectangle. HTH.

LaMarschallin · 03/09/2019 14:31

Oh - and the little square of brown is that when choosing an emoji, it's possible to change the skin tone from a default of pinkish-white to various shades of brown, sometimes used to reflect that the person using the emoji wants to expresstheirskin tone. Mumsnet settings, however, doesn't support this so instead the default pink-white is used, with the chosen shade of brown appearing beside it as a small rectangle. HTH.

Thank you!

And you really have helped.
Google wasn't particularly explanatory. They seemed to crop up randomly (with posters, when I asked, saying things like "Oh, they just happen").

I probably got a bit too obsessed with working it out, but I'm sure you've done wonders for my blood pressure everytime I see one of the things since I won't be stressing about what they mean.

obligations · 03/09/2019 14:36

LaMarschallin ha - no problem, stress no more! 🙌🏾

LaMarschallin · 03/09/2019 14:46

It works!
I looked at your post, thought smugly: " I know about those now!" and remained chilled Smile

MoobaaMoobaa · 03/09/2019 15:10

Mumsnet settings, however, doesn't support this so instead the default pink-white is used, with the chosen shade of brown appearing beside it as a small rectangle

not sure it's a MN thing, because I see it as it's suppose to be. I was wondering what people were saying about little rectangles.

This is what I see

to think MN is being infiltrated by Huns?
BendyLikeBeckham · 03/09/2019 15:23

@obligations Oh I couldn't disagree or laugh more! Though I admit I lost the will to read more live after your first paragraph. Straight talking is middle/upper class? And overly sentimental is lower working class? How are restraint and plain talking compatible? And lower classes being expressive in speech, yet your supposed upper classes calling out cunts is not expressive?

Tell the Queen that overly decorative interiors are not for her homes and she must be puritanical and bin the gold leaf. Tell Mrs Hinch she needs to glam up the spartan minimalism with some pops of colour because she should be more gauche and gaudy.

I am most definitely working class, and I deride the hunny wankery. And I refer you to my 'just call a cunt a cunt' comment early upthread. Vulgarity, coarseness, and expressive expletives are straight talking and only middle or upper class? wtf! Have you seen Geordie Shore? Grin

Jeez, have you cut and pasted from a combo of different wikis? Total contradictory load of bollocks, hun. Is that straight talking/hunny/upper middle lower class enough? Confused

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BendyLikeBeckham · 03/09/2019 15:24

@obligations but thank you for the helpful (and somewhat more succinct) explanation of the slice of toast!

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BendyLikeBeckham · 03/09/2019 15:26

sorry for the long rant, everyone else. Can we put the class argument on the shelf now, or are the worms crawling out of the tin?

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