A relative very very kindly offered to look after our dog while we went away for a few days with another relative as the dog hates the kennels.
Relative can be a bit unsteady sometimes , not around the house but definitely on long country walks and uneven ground so we said just to let her in the garden and not walk her. Especially as dog is a rescue and recall can be an issue.
Relative said this was the best and agreed.
I've just found out that they have actually been taking her out every single day on long walks and lying to us and the relative we were with knew and had said nothing.
I don't know how I feel tbh
I'm grateful they looked after her, I'm not even that against the walk I was just trying to make it easier for them, dd is very upset!