AIBU? To want to start a serious relationship with a Man I met on holiday?

[Sadestevenson]

I am a single mum of three all above the ages of 10 and I recently went to Morroco and met an amazing tour guide who spent most of the week taking us on excursions. We became good friends and had alot in common with each other. Since arriving back in the UK we stayed in contact and I have been developing feelings for him. Is it unreasonable to want to start a relationship with him? And if I did have a relationship with him what sort of expectations should i have?

This HAS to be a joke. No one falls for this nonsense anymore surely.

I dunno. One of my friends is doing the same sort of thing.

@Sadestevenson No, no, no, Please don't. Both my sister and niece "married" Tunisians and it was a disaster in both cases, with terrible heartache and loads of money given away. You will regret it, I assure you.

I could write reams about this. In North Africa, they have an expectation of something called 'bezzyness'. This is when a North African marries a European woman for gain. It is built into their culture and is seen as an investment for the day when they finally marry a good Muslim girl from their own country. They have everything to gain from you. Have a look at this website for further enlightment: www.tunisiansloverats.com.

Sorry, the website is www.tunisianloverats.com

Well he’s not going to ask for money straight away, he’s working on the longer con.

Well he’s not going to ask for money straight away, he’s working on the longer con.

And several at the same time, until one bites the bait.

Check out this website www.tunisianloverats.com/ obviously different country, but similar cultures. It's basically about mainky British women and their dating experiences with Tunisian men mainly those from hotels, bars and tourism in general. Massive eye opener.

Oh no... the lady I know is 'in a relationship' with a Tunisian holiday worker.

I'd show her the page moomin if she signs up, she can search his name or the hotel he works for and if hes been mentioned the threads will come up

The reason you asked on here is because deep down you know it’s dodgy. Don’t do it to yourself, really you know the script.

Well luckily I searched his name on there and he doesn’t come up. She’s smitten with him that I don’t really want to be the shot messenger 😬

I just hope he’s genuine.