To be suspicious of this text

[letsjustsee]

Hi ladies,

So ive been dating a guy for a while now (8 months) we get on amazing, he lives 100 miles away from me so makes dating hard, but I'm 100% committed to him and he says he is with me. However;
We were talking tonight via text about him going out with his friend and I get a text saying " I don't understand why you're counting with us 🤦🏻‍♂️♥️ Xxxxxx"

He then proceeded to (in my own opinion) panic and text me straight away saying the text was for his sister, he then called me 7 times, text me 3 times and messaged me on Instagram within 5 mins ( I was in the shower at the time this happened)

I would've thought the text was strange but laughed it off because I had no reason to mistrust him, however his response to this had put me on edge, am I right to have this feeling??? What would you do??

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻

I do swap heart emojis with my own DBro, and sometimes strings of kisses, but for us it's all tongue in cheek. What made this suspicious was the utter overkill in trying to contact OP to make out it was just an innocent mistake.

@PoppingOneOutIn2020 am still chuckling at that one

Just remember that the concensus of opinion here is one thing, the true position may well be another.

Counting shags for sure, maybe even a prozzie I’m sorry to say

Sorry this happened to you but hell- classy response !

Get yourself an STI check too OP x

I have two adult brothers who text me with kisses, but not 6! That's weird. That was not for his sister at all. The only time we exchange ❤ is when we're fawning over our nephew/one of their sons.

Well done OP! No way was that for his sister and about stocktaking. You did the right thing to delete, block and move on. You are worth more - much more!

I read the ‘why you’re counting with us’ as who paid for dinner/outing/hotel last time. Was he tight, @letsjustsee ? Maybe she was saying ‘I paid for last 3...etc.’ Or perhaps other way round.

Either way he’s too deceitful for you. And too fucking thick. Stocktaking 😂😂😂😂😂

Behind the curve, and probably already said but if it’s a stock check, all staff count all product and return the figures to head office! It’s someone he works with.
He’s flirting with a colleague.

Nope that’s not a text for his sister. He’s bullshitting you. The other woman must have said something like “I’m counting down the days till I see you” 👨🏻‍💼❤️ Xxxxxx = I love you kisses

Ah OP, so sad he did this to you - but girl, what style you have!

Please update us with how many times he’s tried to contact you by other methods. It would’ve been great to have seen his face when he realised he’d screwed up ha ha

way to go OP. Very proud of how you handled this.

Perfectly handled 😀❤❤❤❤❤

Good work OP! Handled amazingly! Onwards and upwards!

Well done OP!!...totally get the AIBU over dating esp meeting online & across the country...these guys really do take the p*ss with their behaviour and fuel paranoia.

Op bravo, i am using your approach with men going forwards

WEll done OP 👏 👏 👏

I hope you were using protection...

OMG what an insult to your intelligence?!! SERIOUSLY! Meant for his sister and he deletes all the messages straight away? Fuming for you OP

PoppingOneOutIn2020

I love that! 😂😂😂

YES - and keep it that way. He's a scum bag

Tell him you are not "counting" on him for anything now he has no fears and that's it, Bye.

A+ response, OP!