To be suspicious of this text

[letsjustsee]

Hi ladies,

So ive been dating a guy for a while now (8 months) we get on amazing, he lives 100 miles away from me so makes dating hard, but I'm 100% committed to him and he says he is with me. However;
We were talking tonight via text about him going out with his friend and I get a text saying " I don't understand why you're counting with us 🤦🏻‍♂️♥️ Xxxxxx"

He then proceeded to (in my own opinion) panic and text me straight away saying the text was for his sister, he then called me 7 times, text me 3 times and messaged me on Instagram within 5 mins ( I was in the shower at the time this happened)

I would've thought the text was strange but laughed it off because I had no reason to mistrust him, however his response to this had put me on edge, am I right to have this feeling??? What would you do??

Have none of you ever done a stocktake before. You are counting the stock and it’s usually done in teams. It could be genuine, I hope it is

It wasn’t what he said it was the fact that he freaked out afterwards and tried a million and one ways to contact her to do damage control!!

Well done, you!

Ha what a bell end.

Hope you're ok though OP

OP you’re ace!

What a dickhead

Oh dear.
Had a bit of a Google. "cunt" often gets turned into "count" with predictive text. Urban Dictionary gives this definition of "cunting"
Cunting
Verb: When one or more males take part in a 'cunt hunt'; all intentions and actions of the male at this point in time are focused on obtaining sexual intercourse with a female.

A Strayan tradition that often takes place in accordance with copious amounts of alcohol consumption supported by male peer pressure and socializing.

'The great Strayan cunt hunt'
"Hey mate, lets smash some beers with the boys and go 'cunting' tonight."
#sex#slaying bitches#fucking#intercourse#clubbing
by Straya Mate November 13, 2012
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Cunting&page=3

deste that’s a joke right? Unless you’re referring to stock takes where everyone fucks at the end?

😂😂😂😂

Thatcurlygirl that's the nearly as bonkers as his explanation.

Op, I don't know what it means, but a love heart and six kisses indicates it's to a romantic partner, clearly it's not stock takes with his sister. And no one deletes every text as soon as it comes through.

So yeah, you did right blocking, he's clearly got someone else.

Good for you OP. He doesn't make sense and is lying. There is no point ins discussing it further as he will continue to lie. Your response was perfect.

Eileen
Interesting info re cunting changed to counting. Idk which is worse!

Does the counting not refer to the kisses?
As in the OW said something like 'only 2 kisses on my texts? ' and he responded with that text with the overkill of kisses plus the implication that it's the real life kisses that count.

That's what I took from the text.

But his panicked reaction made sense even if that text doesn't. Well done on blocking op. On to the next one!

Smellbow
I thought in that case would it perhaps be an ironic post taking the piss out of either the ‘cunting’ friend or the women they bagged?

Op! You are a hero, well done. Would be interested to see if he'd try to reply.

I decided to experiment with this...

Look. No bloke sends a message that ends in a love heart and six kisses to his sister, end of.

Nor does he send it to his male friends. It doesn't matter what rhe message meant, it was not for the op as he admits, and it certainly wasn't for his sister.

The message was clearly intended for another woman. And he panicked.

I'm sorry OP but I burst out laughing when I read the 'stock take with his sister' explanation. 😂 Honestly, did he think you were born yesterday?!

Well done for getting rid. Now he can stock take as much as he wants.

It sounds to me like he's going out with his mate, someone who he has been inappropriately messaging/flirting with is tagging along and he's messaged saying can't believe you're coming with us and it's auto corrected. That is the only sense I can make out if that message. Well done for standing your ground OP

I thought she's counting days(calendar method) and there's no need to because they always use condoms/other contraceptive.

Doesn't matter really,if it was innocent he'd have the screen shot to prove it.

Conveniently he deletes all messages as soon as he receives them.

Well done. Brilliant response.

Yes ,well done .

Sorry OP! So glad you've just blocked immediately and not been taken in by the lie.

Hope you're ok x