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People who have never experienced being in family court

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SavanahXx · 02/08/2019 23:40

It really does my head in when people side with social services. They have an opinion that "they are just doing what's best for the child". These people that have the opinion mostly have never even had involvement with SS, therefore don't see the lies and manipulation of a situation that they use.

It's easy for them to say that a parent 'could pose a risk' but do you know how hard it is to prove you wouldn't?

I seen an utterly revolting article that really baffled me. Social workers manage to get away with this stuff daily. Yet its not reported as it should be. This child was removed, with a judges permission. Then placed back with the mother by another judge.
There is so much corruption in our society and it needs to change.

www.google.com/amp/s/www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2018/06/13/social-worker-criticised-child-taken-away-mother-refused-give/amp/

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tirednhungry247 · 06/08/2019 08:46

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auntethel · 06/08/2019 09:04

Ignore the "minions" Savanah and focus on what your thread is about. We're letting people know about our personal experiences. You're doing a grand job Smile

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SavanahXx · 06/08/2019 09:17

@auntethel I've never come across viler people in my life.. I guarantee non of these would say half the stuff they are saying to someone's face though. Easy to hide behind a computer screen with a anonymous persona and give people shit haha

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auntethel · 06/08/2019 09:19

Savanah, I've reported. How's your cold today?

Passthecherrycoke · 06/08/2019 09:20

Ive barely commented on this thread but savanah and auntethel you’re really coming across as childish and inarticulate now, and it’s pretty clear why you had so many problems communicating with the court.

SavanahXx · 06/08/2019 09:25

@Passthecherrycoke erm no. Ot childish and inarticulate. Everything we have said has been from experience. Things we have seen first hand.. what would you do if someone was saying you're a shite mother and would possibly harm your child? Because thats what these posters are saying purely because we have had a shit experience with corrupt social workers and are speaking out about it. Too right im about to say something back. I'm anything but a shit parent. Think people need to get their facts right before shouting their mouths off.

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SavanahXx · 06/08/2019 09:27

@auntethel still abit sniffly. It's more of a horrendous cough now though. Its Bloody horrible. Hope it's going to clear up in a few days :D

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Passthecherrycoke · 06/08/2019 09:27

I’m not denying your experiences, it’s the fact you’re talking like a 15 year old in high school who is accusing another girl of giving them evils. It’s not the way you deal with adults. I mean SS said you were a shit parent and I assume to didn’t react like that to them?

auntethel · 06/08/2019 09:29

Savanah, I've had much worse in the past, this is nothing Grin It's getting good now, isn't it? Anyway, what do people think about Katie Price having to put DS into care?

auntethel · 06/08/2019 09:32

Passthecherrycoke what do you think about Katie Price having to put ds into care?

Passthecherrycoke · 06/08/2019 09:33

She’s hasn’t had to put him into care. He’s in a residential school, effectively a boarding school. How is that relevant anyway

SavanahXx · 06/08/2019 09:36

@Passthecherrycoke they didn't once say I was a shit parent, but even if they did. I have proved I was right and they wanted wrong. So why should that give strangers he right to call me a sit parent and say I'd possibly hit my child? What, because I've had SS involvement? I think you'll find they are the childish ones with a really naive view of the world.

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SemperIdem · 06/08/2019 09:46

Pretty confident there is sock puppetry going on here.

auntethel · 06/08/2019 09:48

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auntethel · 06/08/2019 09:51

Savanah Totally Ignore Semperidem

x2boys · 06/08/2019 09:52

I thought personal attacks were not allowed in mumsnet and there are personal attacks on all sides ? As for Katie price putting her son into residential care ,first of all he's an adult and a severely disabled adult at that ,I don't suppose it's a decision she's taken lightly if you have no knowledge of severe disability you really can't comment ,I'm not keen on her ,but I think she's done a great job with him, trust me it's not easy being the parent of a disabled child or adult as he is now .

auntethel · 06/08/2019 09:57

Yes my disabled ds is now adult and lives in supported accommodation.

SavanahXx · 06/08/2019 10:04
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SavanahXx · 06/08/2019 10:08

You're ignorant into the issue, yet it seems that you clearly haven't done your own research into it. If you did, maybe you wouldn't be as naive. And maybe you wouldn't be as rude to the parents who have dealt with corrupt social workers. Actually look into something that can shape and change your child's future. Because they could, at any time, get involved with your DC's or yourselves at any given moment.

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auntethel · 06/08/2019 10:15

Savanah you're going to get a lot of backlash now due to those videos. They just luuurve Ian Josephs Grin Try not to argue back, just keep sticking to the point. Remember, your dd wasn't removed because you're a great mother. My dd wasn't removed, our case was about SEN education.

SavanahXx · 06/08/2019 10:17

@auntethel ones a social worker. How can they even argue with that. People need to open their minds to what the world's actually like. It isn't just black and white. There are many shades of grey too.

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Isatis · 06/08/2019 10:19

We refused (as is our right) so instead of allowing us to use SEND tribunal (the correct forum) they used family court to obtain care order. They hid all good reports and made their own bad reports.

I'm really struggling to believe this. No social worker can prevent parents from bringing an appeal in the tribunal. You would have been allowed legal aid as of right in the Family Court and that would have funded your own reports. If the SWs "hid" good reports you would have had the right to file them yourselves.

Isatis · 06/08/2019 10:21

If those are Ian Joseph videos, it's a certainty that any relationship with the facts will be coincidental.