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Paying into husband's house

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AlmostAlwyn · 01/08/2019 11:44

We currently live in a house which is owned my my MIL, which my husband will inherit (or she will transfer ownership to him) at some point. It needs quite a lot of work done on it. We have a joint account, but I have £6000 in a separate savings account. My husband is suggesting using my savings (as a contribution as it will cost more), saying it's an "investment".

Obviously, it is. It's my home too, but am I right not to be sure about it? If the money gets used, then I'm not sure I'll start another separate savings account. Also, what would happen in the event of a divorce? If nothing was written down, I guess I wouldn't get that money back...?

AIBU to say no, we're not using my savings?

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AnneKipanki · 02/08/2019 13:51

The husband does not want to use the joint account money. He wants to use her money.

HollowTalk · 02/08/2019 13:55

He likes other women to pay for things for him, doesn't he?

AlmostAlwyn · 03/08/2019 22:38

There are no other siblings to object to the way things stand to be inherited. Unlikely that MIL will go crazy and leave the house to a cat shelter, but... well, I already said you never know Grin

"He likes other women to pay for things for him, doesn't he?" No, that's not the case at all.

I realise we've been benefitting from living here rent free, but we both have, so I don't think just my money should be used.

Anyway, I had a chat with DH and he agreed that we wouldn't use my savings if I didn't want to. I'll see how it goes and perhaps reconsider if things change in the future!

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