Tattoos - DPs name

[SimplySteveRedux]

I'm booked in for the names of my kids to go on my arm, DD (19) is rather upset (and I can tell DS 21 is pissed off) that I seem not to be including their mums name too. We've been together almost 25 years.

I love her very, very, much, but isn't it a big no-no in case you ever split etc? So AIBU not to, or?

I personally think name tattoos are rediculous.

Meh. I think people that put an E in ridiculous are ridiculous 🤷‍♀️

My husband has left me after 21 years together. I wouldn’t be an advocate of partner tattoos - the love isn’t unconditional