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AIBU to be worried about this? Accidental glass of wine at 11 weeks...

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Mmmgoats · 25/06/2019 10:48

I wasn’t that worried about this but my friend has made me panic a bit.
Was at a family bbq at the weekend and I’d taken some non alcoholic wine that I hadn’t tried before. My cousin went and poured me a small glass and we were chatting, I drank some of mine and commented how good it was, probably drank about half a small wine while eating.
I couldn’t stomach the rest (been feeling sick a lot) so left it but then my cousin realised that she had mixed them up and given me the proper wine and she had had the non alcoholic wine (when she got herself another glass from the correct bottle and realised it tasted different)
At the time I didn’t think it would be a problem as t was only half a small glass, although not ideal but I told my friend and she was horrified and said 11 weeks is the worst time to drink because of all the development that’s going on.
Obviously I know a lots going on but she wouldn’t let it drop and keeps talking about FAS and the fact that my baby’s organs could be affected. It’s not something I would have chosen to do, but now I’m really anxious and upset and although I haven’t been on for a while, thought I’d get an overview here.
I know it’s done now, nothing I can do so my previous view was no point worrying about it, but since talking to my friend I feel terrible and so guilty Incase anything goes wrong :(

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Laublake · 26/06/2019 09:14

It seems to me that your friend is jealous of your pregnancy and knows full well half a glass of wine wont cause problems but has picked up on that to cause you unnecessary stress. When I was pregnant with my first child a ‘friend’ did something similar when I ate some cheesecake, kept going on about it ‘damaging the foetus’ but it was glaringly obvious she was jealous.

MegaClutterSlut · 26/06/2019 09:24

Your friend is a dick to worry you like that and your baby will be fine. It's such a small amount.

I drank loads at a party the week before I found out I was pregnant with ds. I'm talking a small bottle of vodka, shots, wine and anything else I was handed and then we went clubbing and drank more Blush he's was fine so please don't worry

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