Or do I need the pole extracted from my behind?
I was in my kitchen, which has a side back door leading onto an enclosed outside patio area at the side of the house which is accessed by a side gate from the driveway. I do have a functioning front door.
Happily making lunch for the kids in the privacy of my own home.
Next thing I am scared out of my wits by a loud rap on the window in the kitchen and one of DH's friends shouting loudly "are you decent, have you got your clothes on?"
I flipped, swore, opened the door and asked why he had come through the side door and what did he want? After figuring that all out I decided to tell him that I don't appreciate him coming down the side of my house and shouting things like that with all of the neighbours so close and in their gardens etc.
Rather than apologising, he patronisingly told me that MOST people would find that funny. To which I replied, some do not, including me and that the truth was that he gave me a fright. He wasn't having it.
For context, this guy is pervy and creepy and every time he calls around in the day, makes some lewd comment about DH and I being naked or having afternoon delight or something. I work at home so am there trying to get work done.
AIBU in flipping? Would you find that "funny?" . God, I'm so wound up, he has really upset me. Yes, I know it's not the worst thing in the world but really!