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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Are they being CF .. what do you think

248 replies

henry2201 · 18/06/2019 15:36

So here we are in sunny Menorca celebrating a friend’s big birthday. In a villa with a pool , table tennis , pool table, beer in the fridge, music. Arrived Friday and so far every night they’ve been out for a last beer after a night out. So ...... they went shopping to get food for a bbq 4 hours ago ... are we being unreasonable

OP posts:
crispysausagerolls · 18/06/2019 17:09

Dying to know where “husbands” is going

SpeckofStardust · 18/06/2019 17:11

Never fear I have a voting button and I will vote for you.... ...um, nope. I got nothing.

I think we're gonna need an "AWAITING DRIPFEED" button MNHQ.

LimeKiwi · 18/06/2019 17:12

Maybe it's sun stroke from all the sitting about waiting for the menz to get back.
Try putting a hat on and sitting in the shade for a bit OP
(Sorry, got my mum head on a bit there lol Grin )

LimeKiwi · 18/06/2019 17:14

Yes!
An awaiting dripfeed button

and whilst they're making new buttons can we have an WTAF Are You On About button too please Grin

SilverySurfer · 18/06/2019 17:15

ConcreteUnderpants
What happens later when the OP drip feeds that her husband is an abusive bully who wears her stockings and shoves a chicken up his arse, and the best friend is only there because she invited herself on a freebie holiday because she lost 14 stone due to lentils and yoga?

Well the chicken wi9ll be useful for the barbecue but I still won't vote Grin

00100001 · 18/06/2019 17:16

WHATS YOUR AIBU????

LaurieFairyCake · 18/06/2019 17:19

Your husbands have been for a few beers while on holiday ?

WHAT DID THE POLICE SAY ?!?

Hmm
JaniceBattersby · 18/06/2019 17:22

I think that this thread has usefully exposed a flaw in MN’s fancy new button. The drip-feed flaw.

ConcreteUnderpants · 18/06/2019 17:26

Well the chicken will be useful for the barbecue

Good point, SilverySurfer.
If the husbands ever get back though....OP have you called uno, uno, uno? I'm assuming you are in Spain.

sqirrelfriends · 18/06/2019 17:26

Op, it's not a good idea to drink too much in the sun. Maybe have a lie down and write again in the morning.

HiJenny35 · 18/06/2019 17:27

Yabu because I've read this whole thread and can't understand what is going on.

Shitsandgigglez · 18/06/2019 17:28

@sqirrelfriends have you been at the bevvies too?Wink

cuppycakey · 18/06/2019 17:31

Are you on holiday Sharon?

LimeKiwi · 18/06/2019 17:32

If the husbands ever get back though....

They're back but apparently are pissed as farts lol
I'm still none the wiser as to what the AIBU is though Confused Grin

SilverySurfer · 18/06/2019 17:34

Did the husbands do the T-Rex in the supermarket? Grin

viques · 18/06/2019 17:35

Well, I have voted, and let me tell you it was slightly less exciting than voting in a European election when elected members will never be able to take their seats.

I don't know who had the blue sky thinking idea of a voting button Mumsnet, but I suggest that in the future you keep the work experience kids on photocopying rather than being all fuzzy and including them in making decisions.

coconuttelegraph · 18/06/2019 17:35

There's no character limit on posts, you're allowed to explain the problem clearly

TheGoogleMum · 18/06/2019 17:36

I voted yanbu, it sounds annoying if the husband's are having all the fun. Maybe you need to start having your own fun! Or discuss with husband that you want to have fun together

Yogurtcoveredricecake · 18/06/2019 17:37

How many husbands do you have OP?

AcrossthePond55 · 18/06/2019 17:38

Couples holiday, husbands went to get food for BBQ, came back 4 hours later pissed as farts?

My friends and I would have been making merry ourselves during that 4 hours. If we got bored, we would have left a note and gone somewhere ourselves. If we were hungry we would have eaten (in or elsewhere). We certainly wouldn't have sat around waiting for the menz to get back.

BananasAreTheSourceOfEvil · 18/06/2019 17:38

How many husbands?

sqirrelfriends · 18/06/2019 17:39

@Shitsandgigglez Absolutely! Maternity leave is for day drinking, no? Hmm

KatherineJaneway · 18/06/2019 17:39

I'd be pissed off as I assume you were waiting for your BBQ

RomanyQueen · 18/06/2019 17:40

I don't understand your post so for this I voted YABU.

bringincrazyback · 18/06/2019 17:40

They're probably shagging.