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CF gift giving

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PedroThePonyCowboy · 17/06/2019 14:26

What are your friends and family like when it comes to gift giving for birthdays and Christmas? Any cheeky f**ckers who take the piss? My Sil would always ask for (without being asked she would just say I want this for my birthday and give a link) expensive makeup that costs about 40 to 50 pounds. She would then get me and dh cheap crap in return. Once it was a notebook for dh that cost about 5 pounds maximum. Dh never even uses notebooks, its still sitting in a drawer 4 years later. I put my foot down and said no more when she asked for 2 makeup products totally about 60 pounds for Christmas, I now pick the gifts for her that's similar to the crap she gets us. It just amazes me how cheeky some people are. Are they aware they are taking the piss? Do they feel entitled or something? I would never ask for an expensive specific gift even if I was asked and I would never ask for expensive gifts and buy something crap in return.

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honeygirlz · 19/06/2019 17:21

@jwpetal you could just give vouchers or money to those who keep nice thoughtful gifts?

honeygirlz · 19/06/2019 17:22

*keep buying you

jwpetal · 19/06/2019 20:40

@honeygirlz it is such a minefield. then people complain that there is not enough on the card. One can't win. I just ask people not to give me anything. It takes the pressure off me. Don't get me wrong I am usually the first there in an emergency. I help out. I cook food. I am a person of action. Just hate stores and shopping. I realise I sound neurotic, but really gift buying is too much. Of course this belief is reinforced by this thread.

Ilovelblue · 19/06/2019 21:16

A friend who is renowned for giving odd presents once gave me something and said "I don't think you will like it but you can put it on eBay". It was an horrendous garden ornament which somehow slipped out of my fingers and smashed.... what a shame.

pavlovarules · 19/06/2019 23:36

My SIL has form for asking what my DC would like for their birthdays/Christmas and then buying a cheaper version, e.g generic building blocks rather than the specific lego set that my DS had wanted to complete a fire station set, a random horse rather than the Rainbow Dash My Little Pony that my DD had her heart set on. Feel like I can't say anything but every gift is just slightly wrong. I now send present requests to my DB who has been embarrassed by some of the cheap crap we've been given in the past as he actually buys the kids what they have asked for Grin

dillusionaldog · 19/06/2019 23:39

My dad and aunt (who is married to my dad) are awful.

how had nobody else gone back to this. Your dad married your mums sister?

dillusionaldog · 20/06/2019 00:10

For all those who have CF gifters can I suggest this year you buy them this little beauty from Royal Doulton. Its a steal at £59.99.....

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PedroThePonyCowboy · 20/06/2019 11:22

Think I found a perfect gift for a CF, it's a solar mooning garden gnome that's only 5.99. Wish I had the courage to get it for my sil

Garden gnome

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