I have a terrible fear of spiders, there was a spider in our living room today. OH managed to capture and kill it very quickly.
He scooped it up in a tissue, then he came really close to me and taunted me with it, then eventually threw it on me.
Some may say that it's humour and banter, since it has happened I've had two showers.
OH has apologised and I believe that he is genuinely sorry, I've asked him to leave for a few days but he thinks I am joking.
I would never ever do something like that to him, I was petrified and he continue to taunt me with it.