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AIBU to ask what you think is the greatest movie/tv sex scene ever?

324 replies

Diel · 09/06/2019 12:18

Been chatting to some friends about this and we came up with ones from Fatal Attraction (sink scene), Brokeback Mountain, GoT (all of them Smile) and Pretty Little Liars amongst others. What was interesting was how some favourites did nothing for others. And some were unanimously agreed to be hot as hell.

Which ones do it for you?

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BellatrixLestat · 09/06/2019 16:54

Hanna and Caleb in PLL Blush

30not13 · 09/06/2019 16:57

Outlander episode 1/2 i think, the oral sex scene

ElizaPancakes · 09/06/2019 16:59

Most are pretty cringey but I really really miss the heady days of my youth when scenes like the one in Atonement might happen!

(Minus the child walking in of course!)

BitOfFun · 09/06/2019 17:02

Rita, Sue And Bob Too.

joking

ProperVexed · 09/06/2019 17:03

Out of Africa on safari in a tent.
Robert Redford (Denis Finch Hatton) "Don't move"
Meryl Streep (Karen Blixen) " But I want to move"
Robert "Don't move"
All the while they are gazing into each other's eyes, him above her.
Oooooooh.

Outofinspiration · 09/06/2019 17:05

When June and Nick have sex in the Handmaid's Tale (only the first time though) - I was 'holy shit that was hawwwwt'!

ForalltheSaints · 09/06/2019 17:05

I think that most sex scenes are as another person put it, cringey, or very unrealistic. In most cases the film would be better without them.

Survivaltowel · 09/06/2019 17:05

Third vote here for Don't Look Now. Very sexy but also very real. (Devastatingly sad plot)

Outofinspiration · 09/06/2019 17:07

Third vote here for Don't Look Now. Very sexy but also very real.

They did actually have sex didn't they? Sorry has that already been covered in the thread? Blush

Bunnylady53 · 09/06/2019 17:16

I think kissing scenes can sometimes be way more erotic than full on sex scenes. And I do love sex scenes in the shower. Had a HUGE crush on one of the sexiest guys I have ever met & Oh God, the times I fantasied about him taking me hard up against the tiles as the hot water cascaded down. Steamy in more ways than one!

DarkestBeforeDawn · 09/06/2019 17:16

Most memorable for me was from the movie 'Monster' with Halle Berry and Billy Bob Thornton!

DarkestBeforeDawn · 09/06/2019 17:17

*Monster's Ball

InTropicalTrumpsLand · 09/06/2019 17:17

I really enjoyed the sex scenes in Bodyguard, probably due to their dynamics and Madden, of course Blush

Outofinspiration · 09/06/2019 17:19

And I do love sex scenes in the shower. Had a HUGE crush on one of the sexiest guys I have ever met & Oh God, the times I fantasied about him taking me hard up against the tiles as the hot water cascaded down. Steamy in more ways than one!

Yeah but it's never like that in real life - shower sex is a logistical nightmare Grin

Sparklypen · 09/06/2019 17:27

Michelle Pfeiffer and Jeff Bridges in the fabulous Baker boys (piano scene).

Susan Sarandon and James Spader in White Palace (JS v hot back in the day)

Ihopeyourcakeisshit · 09/06/2019 17:29

Ooh Jeff Bridges was hot in that.

StarbucksSmarterSister · 09/06/2019 17:33

Dennis Quaid and Ellen Barkin in The Big Easy.

Absolutely.

I don't think most of the other sexy scenes mentioned above are sexy at all really, apart from Body Heat.

Wigginsy · 09/06/2019 17:39

Patricia Arquette and Christian Slater in True Romance

ToTheMoonAndBack78 · 09/06/2019 17:40

Ooh any of the True Blood ones with Eric..Alexander Skarsgard my god what a man. Also The big guy who is the werewolf, Joe Manganiello ...mountain of a man. Married to Sofia Vergara. Lucky gal lol .

TheFreaksShallInheritTheEarth · 09/06/2019 17:41

When Frank n Furter sleeps with both Brad and Janet 😉

Ha, actually I did like that! I think that I “would” with Frank n Furter, too!

But further to my earlier disapproving comment (regarding cringeworthiness and unnecessariness) what’s as bad is that I suddenly become very aware that these are two actors, not real lovers, and I feel very sorry for them.
Must be an awful, embarrassing thing to have to do. I imagine that most of them must hate it.

TwinklyMummaLuvsHerBubba89 · 09/06/2019 17:46

Don't look now, Donald Sutherland and Julie Christie

They allegedly had actual sex and weren't just acting.

minmooch · 09/06/2019 17:46

Out of Africa when Robert Redford washes Meryl Streep's hair!

TwinklyMummaLuvsHerBubba89 · 09/06/2019 17:47

@Outofinspiration got there first.

TwinklyMummaLuvsHerBubba89 · 09/06/2019 17:49

I prefer less is more. The most erotic scene ever is also the most recent - as others have mentioned - Fleabag and the confessional scene. When he opened the door and said "kneel" my loins lit up like Blackpool 😂

TwinklyMummaLuvsHerBubba89 · 09/06/2019 17:51

Oh and Remains of the Day, the scene where Emma Thompson corners Anthony Hopkins trying to see if he's reading a smutty book.

She's focused on the book and getting closer and closer and he's staring at her and there's a moment where he could kiss her but he doesn't let his guard down and the moment is lost. Totally heartbreaking and subtly erotic at the same time.