Don't ask if you don't want views!
this is the funniest thing you have posted.
You have been incredibly aggressive in your posts, and rude to everyone who disagrees with you. You have name called and accused posters of being goady, because they are putting forward a different point of view.
I can't believe you went to work all day, then changed in the toilets at work (wtf??) to be banging on the doors at 6pm, when you are invited to an evening Reception. That is beyond bizarre. So you've not eaten anything from lunchtime, and you;ve presumably not had a shower and you've rushed there to then complain.
I can't get over the fact you keep going on and on about how much it "cost you".
You were invited to a party.
If your budget is so tight you can't afford the petrol, then don't go. It is a party after a wedding. It was not a summons.
I was talking with a friend earlier today who is in the throes of planning her wedding. I said to her how lovely it is nowadays that people can do, or not d what they want for their weddings these days and how nice it is that weddings are all so different.
If you struggle with things not being exactly what you expect, then the best thing to do is to chat with people and find out the plan. I always ask these days what the plan for the day is, as I must have funny blood sugar or something as I struggle not eating at my normal mealtimes. I realise that is my issue, so I find out the plan, and work round it in terms of taking a snack or eating my previous meal at a different time etc. I don't expect the world to dance around me.