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to think this IS stealing and it DOES count?

194 replies

Snuffalo · 26/05/2019 17:04

Sister in law has a little piece from a fishbone cactus potted up on her windowsill, just starting to show new growth. I asked if I could have a cutting once it's established, and she said sure, or I could just go to (fancy houseplant shop up the road) and see if there was a bit on the floor, because that's where she got the cutting.

She swears she didn't break it off - that it was already broken off and on the floor near the 'parent' plant (this is believable, the shop is really crowded and you have to brush by the plants to get through).

Her argument is that it was a tiny piece (true - it's an inch long at most) and that it would have just been swept up and thrown out anyway.

My arguments are 1. unless she took the piece to the proprietor and asked if she could have it, it's still stealing. Who's to say the shop owner wouldn't have potted it up herself? and 2. the proprietor paid for the rent, soil, plant food, and put in the labour to create and nurture the plant that dropped that little one-inch cutting and SIL is effectively stealing that money and effort.

This wasn't an ACTUAL argument, just a discussion, I'm not dobbing her in or cutting her off over it, but just curious to see how other people view it.

OP posts:
Wow2806 · 27/05/2019 18:25

Ha ha I think my Grandma, Mum, Aubtue and Sister have all commited crimes as have taken cuttings from places of interest and so forth for as long as I remember. And said cuttings have spent time in a bottle on kitchen window sill with them hoping it grows roots.
Don't all gardeners do stuff like this

VampirateQueen · 27/05/2019 18:28

It is classed as stealing, she took something without permission.

confusedat30 · 27/05/2019 18:31

I wouldn’t class it as stealing no.

Isatis · 27/05/2019 18:53

Loving the way people think they can rewrite the law on this one. It was the property of the shop owner, it was taken without his or her consent with the intention of permanently depriving the owner. That 100% fits the legal definition of theft.

Earthakitty · 27/05/2019 18:54

It's a long time since I read a more pious precious ludicrously sanctimonious piece.
You have too much time on your hands clearly.

TriciaH87 · 27/05/2019 18:55

It's like if you find money on the ground it's not stealing assuming you did not see it being dropped, if you take said money out of someone's purse it is.

SchoolPanicTime · 27/05/2019 19:00

@Isatis

No one's rewriting the law, they're saying morally since it was rubbish to the shop owner it wasn't stealing.

manicmij · 27/05/2019 19:05

It is stealing eg if in a supermarket and an apple from a burst prepacked bag is on the floor and you pick it up, take it away without paying you have stolen it.

EastDulwichWife · 27/05/2019 19:17

Give the OP a break! My sister and I love to ponder nonsense like this (branded pint glasses nicked from a pub; theft or not?), so I’m amused that it’s being discussed.

Sounds like you’re having a lovely day. Enjoy your cake.

Lulu49 · 27/05/2019 19:27

Don’t wish to be rude but get over yourself!!!!!!

Lulu49 · 27/05/2019 19:28

Earthakitty

I agree 😊

elenafrancesca · 27/05/2019 19:30

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Ohyesiam · 27/05/2019 19:32

Too dull to even think about.

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Eustasiavye · 27/05/2019 20:07

Asking for a friend......
To take a cutting, do you just take a piece from the plant? Don't you need roots?

angelfacecuti75 · 27/05/2019 20:09

Yes if u go by law it's stealing but it's really not that big of a deal.

angelfacecuti75 · 27/05/2019 20:12

To all those saying that picking up a note on the floor isn't stealing ...someone got nicked in a shop for picking up a £20 note after being caught on cctv. I've picked up a £20 note off the floor before like the next person...but it makes you think ...

NotBeforeCoffee · 27/05/2019 20:13

By the letter of the law, yes it’s theft:
Dishonestly appropriating property belonging to another with the intention of permanently depriving them of it.

It ticks all those boxes

valsh · 27/05/2019 20:30

If you really believe it's not a problem, then it should be no problem to say to the owner, "this was on the floor, is it OK if I take it?"

On the other hand, if you don't ask because you're afraid they'll say no, if you do it furtively, in a way so the owner won't see you doing it, or simply hoping the owner won't see, then you already know you are being dishonest.

Teacher22 · 27/05/2019 20:53

Technically, it counts as stealing and the very virtuous would not condone it or involve themselves in the deception. It was not a scrupulously honest act.

However, in the grand scheme of things it is an act of minor harm, if any harm came of it at all.

Many people do far worse, even if that is no excuse.

Soverytiredofeverythinggoingon · 27/05/2019 21:35

Actually, as a plant grower and breeder who sells plants to the public in my nursery yes this is stealing. The original plant breeder has the growing rights to the plant, may even have a legal title to it if a new variety they have bred, and yes I'd be pretty pissed off if someone did that to me in my nursery and shop as at the very least that plant, ALL of it, is MY property until someone purchases it.

Soverytiredofeverythinggoingon · 27/05/2019 21:37

And "taking" cuttings, unless you've asked permission, is theft.

Sissyjd · 27/05/2019 23:21

Tbh who really really cares that much???

Soverytiredofeverythinggoingon · 28/05/2019 00:02

Well as the owner of the stolen plant material, I do

Soverytiredofeverythinggoingon · 28/05/2019 00:05

It's the! Why can't you understand this?

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