Aibu to feel the absolute RAGE with this Tinder date?

[Pulipatchouli]

I met a guy for a date and really liked him.
We fell out. Because I left a card through his letterbox which he said endangered his vulnerable clients. Obviously i found this offensive and utterly ridiculous. I'm sure his postman violates his mailbox often!
He keeps messaging me to say 'thanks for the lovely book you sent me but I don't want to go out with you'
And other patronising shit .
I am full of RAGE.

Because he acts like I am sending him presents to win him back when he is obviously a vain plonker!!
And breathe

Eh?

I honestly don't understand. Why would you be putting anything through his letterbox after only one date?

What happened?

You went on 1 tinder date and then went to his home to leave a card? and again to leave a book? how many presents?

Sounds stalker like

Yes, he doesn't sound that great. How many times has he messaged you to say that he doesn't want to go out with you?

Um what?

What?

Wait, does he have clients that live with him?

Was it a card? Or a book? Who are his clients?

YABVU to not tell us what on earth you're on about.

What card did you leave him?

This makes no sense...

This doesn’t really make sense. Did you put a letter and a book through his letter box after 1 date? Why would his clients be picking up his mail? Why is he texting you many times to say no?

Your post makes no sense at all!

Sharon?

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Sharon ? Is that you ?
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Putting things through letterbox after one tinder date questionable.

This endangered a situation at his house that he describes as vulnerable clients who live with him, which sounds more like... ahem some other situation. Sounds even more questionable.

I'd chalk this one up as ships that pass in the night.

Oops sorry.
We went on a date.
Messaged every day then fell out.
I left a card through his door a week later.

That's all!!!

Long time no see Glenn Close

I'm confuddled. Have you put a card and then a book through his letterbox separately or at the same time?
After only 1 date, why would you even do that?
He's probably double locking all his doors and installing spycams along with nailing his letterbox up.

Sorry I don’t understand why you posted him something? Also why did he tell you his address if he’s concerned about security so much?

Eh?? From the way your post reads you went on one date and then sent him a card and latterly a book? That is a bit strange...

I think if he's telling you he doesn't want to go out with you, you should stop contacting him and putting things through his door. It's been one date, you can't have fallen out that terribly. You've never fallen in.

Look, he's not that into you.

Stay away from his home and please don't post anything else to him.

Geez, it's Tinder. He's after a shag-fest not a crazy lady