not to have opened the door?

[SuckingOnDiesel]

I know I am! Bloody MN teaching me never to open the door

So my gas stopped working yesterday. Called the gas company who sent the gas man round. I fell in love

Seriously though, I broke up with my (abusive) DDs dad 18 months ago, and haven't been interested in anybody in that time. I'm only 25 and thought I never would be again tbh, it's been so long. I only really go to work or hang out with my DD and our friends. I sometimes say that Mr Right will have to break into my house if he wants to meet me

There was so much chemistry, he did a couple of other (unrelated) little jobs for me. He was really handsome and funny and interesting. Kind with my DD whilst she was chatting away to him. Same age, similar interests. We just clicked. Stayed chatting for about half an hour after he'd finished. He definitely seemed really interested. Went to say something with his phone in his hand but then went. I was gutted but kind of hoped the gas people would have given him my number (in case he couldn't find the property or whatever) and he might text.

He knocked on the door at like 7.30 that night. When he came over, I looked an absolute state as there was no hot water so I had greasy hair and no make up etc. Then this time I still had no make up, wet hair and mismatched PJs. House was a mess as I do a tidy after bedtime. And also, I was just caught off guard and panicked so I just ran upstairs and hid

I don't even know his name! But know where he lives, where he grew up, former jobs etc.

Regret not answering the door so so much! My sister told me to try and find out his name from the company/ find him on Facebook but this seemed too stalkerish. But then when he knocked on my door, I thought I clearly wasn't being too crazy! So I tried couldn't find him on Facebook. Had to phone the gas company for sometning else so I asked them under the guise of wanting to leave him a good review. They said they use a third party contractor so don't know who it was who came but would send his company my feedback.

That's it, isn't it? I'm going to have to forget about him. And get myself on tinder or something 😩

@foreverhanging

still had a high viz jacket on? assuming work jacket well he was not dressed to impress then was he? didnt even have a suit of armour on as in knight on white charger

The way some posters are carrying on you’d think he’d scaled your down pipe and appeared in your bedroom swinging his tool, not knocked on your door at 7:30pm.

Quite.

I married the brickie that built my mum's shed.

There was someone on here who fancied the landscape gardner and started dating him. I think they had a baby?? I can't quite remember but I do remember excitedly following their first date thread (under a different name)

Ah OP - quite clearly he is a predatory rapist paedophile

You need to make the next move - he won't try again as you ran away when he came back at that shockingly late boundary busting time of 7.30pm

any update? did you call?

any news?

Wow, how much paranoia exists in the mumsnet universe?!?
It was 7:30, he was still in his work wear, probably just finished so popped back.
Nothing weird about that at all.