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Don’t want to go through with second part of termination!

279 replies

Superscaredx · 30/04/2019 19:21

Posted on here for traffic mainly but I need help.
I am currently 8 weeks pregnant and decided on a termination (please don’t judge, my reasons are completely valid) Today was the first appointment where I took mifepristone. The next appointment is on Thursday and I 100 percent do not want to go. I regret my decision so much and I don’t know what to do. I don’t even know if you can continue with the pregnancy after taking mifepristone, or what it does to the pregnancy! I hope to God it hasn’t effected the baby but I’m worrying so bad. I really want this baby and if I could turn back time I wouldn’t have took the tablet. Anyone with experience on this or works in the industry...please help? Loads of American website say you can have progesterone shots to try and reverse it..but I don’t know anywhere in the UK that would do that. I am so lost.

OP posts:
RubberTreePlant · 01/05/2019 13:45

I suggested a and e as it may be the quickest way to see a gynaecologist today and get progesterone support

If OP thinks P is worth a try, an urgent private Gynae appt would be the way to go.

RubberTreePlant · 01/05/2019 13:46

Reallt don’t know what to do for the best but I want to give this baby a chance

In that case, your only option is to sit it out and hope. But the odds do sound reasonable 🤞🏻

Myheartbelongsto · 01/05/2019 13:49

My heart breaks for you. Hope everything works out op.

MyGastIsFlabbered · 01/05/2019 13:53

Good luck OP

TheMuminator2 · 01/05/2019 14:23

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ClariceBeansUncle · 01/05/2019 14:44

@TheMuminator2- wtf? How is watching unscientific, inaccurate pro life bollocks like this going to help the OP at all? Jog on....

Zoflorabore · 01/05/2019 14:51

Hope you get the outcome you want op.
Such a sad thread to read, sending you hugs.

PinkHeart5914 · 01/05/2019 15:01

Thing is you decided to abort this baby, you did not want this baby. You say in your OP that these reasons were completely valid reasons. Has your life changed completely since you took the first pill that you now want a child, can provide for a child and so on? That’s the big question here.

I can’t believe how many posters said to go to A&E I mean seriously this is not an accident or emergency. Having changed your mind about aborting a baby isn’t really an A&E situation

redstapler · 01/05/2019 15:05

If it was me I’d be classing it as an emergency

but surely you must realise it isn't an emergency?

I might think my ingrown toenail is an emergency, doesn't mean it actually is.

Travis1 · 01/05/2019 15:11

Fingers crossed for you and baby OP Flowers

bellabasset · 01/05/2019 15:16

The only thing you can do now is to keep calm and try to avoid worrying too much. Good luck, I hope it all goes smoothly for you and the baby

NewYoiker · 01/05/2019 15:26
Thanks
Evilspiritgin · 01/05/2019 15:34

I hope everything works out well for you,

MarchSurprise · 01/05/2019 15:46

Good luck OP

darlingtwinklebum · 01/05/2019 16:37

Good luck Thanks

CanuckBC · 01/05/2019 16:47

Good luck.

SihtricsHorseWitnere · 01/05/2019 16:54

Good luck!

Sagradafamiliar · 01/05/2019 17:21

I'm crossing my fingers for you OP. I'd have changed my mind as well but unfortunately for me I seem to have been told lies and that I must proceed with the second part of the abortion.

ElektraLOL · 01/05/2019 17:22

@Superscaredx good luck!!

Farmerswifey12 · 01/05/2019 17:44

Good luck OP, hope it goes well for yt? And the baby Flowers

AryaStarkWolf · 01/05/2019 17:51

Best of luck OP, I hope everything works out for you

NotSoThinLizzy · 01/05/2019 17:54

Good luck. 😊

PlinkPlink · 01/05/2019 17:56

How has it gone today OP?

RogueV · 01/05/2019 18:04

Really hope everything works out for you op Flowers

TheRollingCrone · 01/05/2019 18:14

Keeping it all crossed for you OP🌹