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Don’t want to go through with second part of termination!

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Superscaredx · 30/04/2019 19:21

Posted on here for traffic mainly but I need help.
I am currently 8 weeks pregnant and decided on a termination (please don’t judge, my reasons are completely valid) Today was the first appointment where I took mifepristone. The next appointment is on Thursday and I 100 percent do not want to go. I regret my decision so much and I don’t know what to do. I don’t even know if you can continue with the pregnancy after taking mifepristone, or what it does to the pregnancy! I hope to God it hasn’t effected the baby but I’m worrying so bad. I really want this baby and if I could turn back time I wouldn’t have took the tablet. Anyone with experience on this or works in the industry...please help? Loads of American website say you can have progesterone shots to try and reverse it..but I don’t know anywhere in the UK that would do that. I am so lost.

OP posts:
RogueV · 02/05/2019 09:02

I’m sorry, take care Flowers

louisvootin · 02/05/2019 09:07

im sorry i hope u will be ok Flowers xx

TheRollingCrone · 02/05/2019 09:09

Oh I'm so sorry OP Flowers

Orlandointhewilderness · 02/05/2019 09:09

I'm so so sorry OP.

VidPid · 02/05/2019 09:18

Op I don't think this was self inflicted you had your reasons and made the best decision you could. I'm so sorry you're upset. Be kind to yourself.

YouLikeTheBadOnesToo · 02/05/2019 09:20

I am so, so sorry. Take care and be kind to yourself.

TeddybearBaby · 02/05/2019 09:23

I’m so so sorry to hear this. I think you’re judging yourself. Be kind x

Disfordarkchocolate · 02/05/2019 09:28

No judgment from me OP, you were in a very difficult situation and you did what you thought was best at the time. Be kind to yourself, you deserve love and compassion. I'll be thinking of you x

QuizzlyBear · 02/05/2019 09:36

I'm so sorry OP. I had everything crossed for you Thanks

Idonotlikeyoudonaldtrump · 02/05/2019 09:37

Talk through your options with the professionals OP...I’m so sorry 🌷

DesparateDino · 02/05/2019 09:51

So sorry.

MollyHuaCha · 02/05/2019 10:20

Take care of yourself. BrewThanks

BertrandRussell · 02/05/2019 10:46

Look after yourself, OP.. Make sure you have plenty of painkillers in case you need them. You may not- but better to be prepared.

funinthesun19 · 02/05/2019 10:48

I’m so sorry OP 😢 My heart aches for you it really does. Take care of yourself and if you ever need to talk I’m always a PM away.

Razzles · 02/05/2019 12:04

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Auramigraine · 02/05/2019 12:07

Awwww OP so sorry to see your update, I had been thinking of you. Hope all goes as well as it can today Flowers and please don’t blame yourself, you did what you thought was right at the time.

AryaStarkWolf · 02/05/2019 12:12

So sorry OP :(

Lifeover · 02/05/2019 12:23

Op I’m so sorry look after yourself, sometimes life is full of difficult choices, we do our best that’s all we can do, make decisions on what we know at the time. but there’s no right or wrong sometimes we look back and regret othertimes we are at peace. If you can seek some councilling. Big hugs

ElektraLOL · 02/05/2019 13:16

I'm so sorry OP. You did what you could at the time with all the information available to you. I hope you have family support Thanks

Barbie222 · 02/05/2019 13:41

I'm so sad to read what you are going through. I hope you are able to get some rest and put it behind you soon.

marvellousnightforamooncup · 02/05/2019 13:46
Flowers
HiTomyFamily · 02/05/2019 14:02

Pregnancy is never self inflicted OP and I think you are very brave.
I hope you can find a way to get through the next few days and weeks and find sone peace. I will be thinking of you x

Ceebs85 · 02/05/2019 14:40

I hope anyone who made nasty comments feels suitably ashamed.

Take all the support on offer OP. I'm so sorry it's not worked out how you wanted it to x

Hazlenutpie · 02/05/2019 14:52

Really sorry OP. Take no notice of the judgemental comments. 💐💐💐

lifeofamummy · 02/05/2019 15:13

So so sorry OP. Please look after yourselfThanksCakeBrew

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