to ask whether there are things you feel MN won't allow to be discussed?

[AndIWon]

I feel there is a lot of agenda here and whilst I can play along with the mods, sometimes I wonder what that agenda is?

Maybe Mumsnet just isn't for you OP. Have you tried Netmums?

And why would we want to say anything negative about being black? Or Irish? Or auti?

You can discuss most of the stuff on that long list as long as you post like a normal person.

Add teenage pregnancy to that list. Any thread I've ever seen concerning it is deleted within minutes!

A thread about moderation. I can see this lasting long.

You can discuss most of the stuff on that long list as long as you post like a normal person

I think so too.

I've seen threads on all the things/topics on your list.

I haven't got a clue what any of this means. What can't we discuss?

Ok, I'll tell you what you're allowed to say:

Autism - the causes - GENETICS
Meghan Markle - IF YOU SAY ANYTHING ABOUT HER, YOU'RE RACIST
The McCanns - THEY WERE KILLERS
Social Housing - ROBBERS
Benefits - LAZY
Northern Ireland - WE ALL LOVE IT
The DUP - NOT ALLOWED TO MENTION
The IRA - BASTARDS
The RUC - ANGELS
Homelessness - THEIR OWN FAULT
Being Irish - WE FEEL SORRY FOR YOU
Women driving their husbands away due to obsessive behaviour - HE'S A CUNT
Alcoholism - OWN FAULT
Suicide ideation - WE DON'T TALK ABOUT THAT HERE
Suicide - AS ABOVE
Depression - GO TO YOUR GP OR YOU'RE LAZY
Being a Leave voter - RACIST
Neighbours with a screaming child - INTOLERANT BITCH
Neighbours shouting - CALL POLICE OR INTOLERANT BITCH
Acronym overuse - ARE YOU THICK?
The NHS - OUR LOVELY NHS? WHAT'S NOT TO LOVE? DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU DIED IN THE PROCESS AND ARE NOW POSTING AS A GHOST
Mumsnet - DO NOT DARE CRITICISE US
Anyone black - I ACTUALLY DARE NOT SAY ANYTHING ON THIS
Dogs killing children - IT'S NOT THE DOG WHO KILLED THE CHILD, IT'S THE OWNER THICKO
Having a confident teenager - OBVIOUSLY A BULLY

If you dare to say anything contrary to the above norms...................

hey OP, i can help.

i’m an alcoholic, disabled (not by booze, i’m sober) and on benefits.

i have depression, my neighbours shout at each other, and i think that a notorious case of child kidnap had an entirely different outcome than that which we are led to believe.

i’ve been homeless, suicidal and spent time on a psychiatric ward, twice. i’ve been married and divorced, twice.

i quite like Meghan Markle, the DUP have the government utterly snookered, and i have raised a confident teenager.

however, i voted Remain, so i am a statistical outlier.

i can see your issue. how on earth are you supposed to get to grips with all this?

sad times.

It’s easily possible to construct a pretty hilarious dark comedy from the specificity of your complaints, OP, but in all seriousness I would suggest that perhaps you should seek some help for your mental health.

You're an anti vaxxer aren't you?

Uhm. I don't think you're allowed to say The McCanns were killers.

Sounds like a little break from MN may be in order OP.

You've got your answers already written in a note haven't your OP ready to be cut and pasted into this thread. Yawn.

That's quite a bit of paranoia happening with you...

Nonsense.

@ElloBrian

Did I dare to question MN moderation? Obvs must be having a mental health crisis.

Hmm, interesting that autism and what causes it is at the top of your list. Are you by any chance the not so delightful person who earlier this evening started a thread claiming to discuss whether or not birth trauma causes autism but ended up telling autistic people they shouldn't procreate (the exact word used)?

You could post in Site Stuff?

You've got your answers already written in a note haven't your OP ready to be cut and pasted into this thread. Yawn.

Care to translate that into English?

Autism - the causes - OK to talk about within guidelines
Meghan Markle - as above
The McCanns - not allowed
Social Housing - Ok to talk about within guidelines
Benefits - as above
Northern Ireland - as above
The DUP - as above
The IRA - as above
The RUC - as above
Homelessness - as above
Being Irish - as above
Women driving their husbands away due to obsessive behaviour - a/a
Alcoholism - a/a
Suicide ideation - don't know, probably not allowed
Suicide - Ok to talk about within guidelines
Depression - a/a
Being a Leave voter - a/a
Neighbours with a screaming child - a/a
Neighbours shouting - a/a
Acronym overuse - perfectly fine
The NHS - perfectly fine
Mumsnet - a/a
Anyone black - Ok to talk about within guidelines
Dogs killing children - a/a
Having a confident teenager - perfectly fine

So out of your whole list there's only one that I can say is off limits. Perhaps you are having trouble staying within guidelines OP?

So are we allowed to say the McCanns are killers, or not? I'm genuinely confused.

U OK hun?