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586 replies

HarrysOwl · 12/04/2019 07:35

When you got married? (If you're married!)

I was reading a BBC article about a woman talking about the judgement and negativity she encountered when she announced her engagement aged 22.

I was 32 when I married DH. We were together for 3 years, got engaged then lived together for another 4 years before having our wedding. I wanted to be as sure as I could be and felt no rush.

Is there a general judgement with feminist overtones about getting married so young? Are they doomed to divorce?

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Newyearnewname2019 · 14/04/2019 16:55

Got together at 16, married at 22, now 34. Still happy.

Livpool · 14/04/2019 17:11

I was 34 - 9 days shy of being 35. I met my husband when I 31.

Almost 4 years married now, it has flown

MusicianLab1 · 14/04/2019 17:34

Met 1989 age 20 married 1998 29. Still married 👍🏻

WikkiTikkiWoo · 14/04/2019 17:41

Met when I was 22.. Moved in together when 23, married at 24.

Looking back (20 years later) I am shocked I didn't receive any "but you're so young" comments.. Didn't have kids for ten years though.

Magi84 · 14/04/2019 17:48

Married at 24 DH at 30 been married 62 years

pollymere · 14/04/2019 17:52

21, nearly 22. Been married twenty years. Did get asked to go on telly about marrying young. Did refuse.

SugarMiceInTheRain · 14/04/2019 17:57

Met at 19, married at 20, about 2 weeks before my 21st birthday. Looking back I was a very different person back then. I'm horrified at how immature I probably was and have had moments where I wish I'd had a bit more fun being young and free before settling down, but we are still happily married 17 years and 3 children later so it wasn't a bad decision!

Attitude84 · 14/04/2019 18:03

I was 19 (he was 21) when he asked me to marry him. 12 years and 12 days and two kids later we got married!! We are 35 and 36 now and have been married almost 4 years! Wish we had done it A LOT sooner!!!

Confusedbeetle · 14/04/2019 18:04

married at 22, still married at 67

Confusedbeetle · 14/04/2019 18:04

68

LoveBeingAMum555 · 14/04/2019 19:23

Married at 24, two kids by the time I was 28. Still happily married 23 years later. No regrets but DS is 20 and I would rather he waited a bit.

Attitude84 · 14/04/2019 19:51

Livpool- when’s your anniversary? We have been married four years this year too

Playmytune · 14/04/2019 20:14

Knew him since I was 4. Got together when I was 18. Married at 20. Still together 37 years later.

HelenaJustina · 14/04/2019 20:16

20, been married 15 years this year

effiehabb · 14/04/2019 20:18

28, we had been together 11 years.

Deadpoet · 14/04/2019 20:32

Met at 21
Engaged at 22
Bought our house at 22
Married at 25

Now 45 still married

Livpool · 14/04/2019 20:57

Attitude our anniversary is 6th June. What about you?

Cockadoodledooo · 14/04/2019 22:42

Our anniversary is also 6th June! 21 years for us this year though. I was 21 when we married, dh 23. Don't remember any negativity about us being young - there was a bit when we announced our engagement 6 weeks after our first date though. Think they realise we're serious now though Grin

TheMadGardener · 14/04/2019 22:48

Met DH when I was 20. (He's older). Didn't become an item until I was 22. Engaged at 25, married at 28. Still married at 49 although unfortunately DH now has terminal cancer.

When I got married I thought 28 was terribly mature, but looking back it seems young!

PurplePenguins · 14/04/2019 23:09

First time 23 lasted 8 years. Second time 36 lasted 2 years.

Livpool · 14/04/2019 23:18

Congratulations Cockledoodledoo! Much longer than me 👍

LittleCandle · 14/04/2019 23:22

Got married at 22. Was married for 22 years, although we'd been together for 24 years. Don't miss him and know wonder how I stayed married for so long. At the time, that was the norm.

TwinMama6 · 15/04/2019 00:24

Met at 16, married at almost 18 ( 2months prior to 18th) still together after 15.5 years.

Dramaqueen2019 · 15/04/2019 00:27

Still waiting 😅

OneTitWonder · 15/04/2019 00:37

I was 37.

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