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To be absolutely fuming at my GPs?

234 replies

metsa · 26/03/2019 17:16

My baby will turn 6 weeks old on 3rd April. The GP surgery called me when I was first home to give me details on how to register her and told me that someone will be in touch to arrange her 6 week check. So I waited until today, with no contact from them, and finally decided I can't wait any longer so I decided to arrange this appointment myself.

Well apparently the soonest appointment they have is 16th April! I am fuming. I had a cesarean and I cannot drive. I live in a village. My partner works long hours 50 miles from where we live and is a contractor so doesn't get paid for days he doesn't go into work. I am totally stranded. I have missed one blood test for me and one for the baby already simply because there is no way for me to get to them. I will have missed the due date on another 2 blood tests by the time of this appointment.

And to make it worse my in laws are coming for the week of 8th April. I will no have no choice but to sit at home with them all week since I can't drive them anywhere. We can walk around the village but nowhere else.

I am fuming because this is not a surprise need for an appointment or a whim I have. This is essential and has been known about for weeks. If I hadn't contacted the GP today I have no idea when or if they would have contacted me. I feel utterly isolated and let down. AIBU?

OP posts:
Deadposhtory · 28/03/2019 20:19

I don't even think my last one had a six week check..... No one died

GPatz · 28/03/2019 20:51

Sky199 Maybe actually read OP's posts before you make stupid comments?

Myheartbelongsto · 28/03/2019 20:57

Christ, I had a baby on a Fri night and was back in work on Monday morning!

And she was born 10 months after her big brother.......

Ring your insurance company and yabu to be fuming.

MyOtherProfile · 28/03/2019 21:12

Christ, I had a baby on a Fri night and was back in work on Monday morning!

Not sure that's something to advocate for. Thank goodness for maternity leave and chance to rest and bond.

endofthelinefinally · 28/03/2019 21:32

Why can't people read the OP?
It isn't difficult.
It would save them typing and posting nonsensical replies.

NicciLovesSundays · 29/03/2019 11:56

Are Mumsnet discussions usually this harsh? Im a new member, entirely shocked at some of the comments. Thought this would be a supportive space.

Scrumptiousbears · 29/03/2019 12:03

I got a telephone appointment with the GP who cleared me to drive due the wait I had getting an appointment.

You need to chill a bit OP.

NewSchoolNewName · 29/03/2019 12:06

NicciLovesSundays AIBU can turn into a bit of a fight club sometimes.

It’s usually politer and more supportive in other parts of mumsnet.

HarrySnotter · 29/03/2019 13:04

Why can't people read the OP?
It isn't difficult.
It would save them typing and posting nonsensical replies.

I heartily agree, it's ludicrous.

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