You don't say what age your children are but imo that's well outside normal parenting, I do and have done everything on your list, judge away, my children have grown up with a normal view of risk and know how to keep themselves safe, you are denying your children the opportunity to learn vital life skills.
Do you allow them to go in cars? That would be pretty irresponsible
My children are now 17 and 20. They are happy, independent adults. One at Uni and one about to go. They are both perfectly well adjusted and know exactly how to keep themselves safe. They both drive, study and work away from home. They were not mollycoddled, nor overprotected. They both are fully able to look after themselves in terms of domesticity.
I accept that the things I was concerned about when they were young were my own fears and not theirs. Nor do I expect others to share my fears.
However, you have simply judged me for my parenting based on what I wrote. Which is exactly the point isn't it? We all do what we deem responsible or not. We make our judgements based on our own upbringing and fears, what our peers are doing, what our parents did.
My own "I would never" does not closely resemble other people's "I would never". And yours does not resemble mine.