Yesterday I flipped out and intended to throw DH out over a very VERY unreasonable falling out.
He had asked me to not do something earlier in the year which upset him cos I was an arse and I did it, I wanted to explain why I had done it but he didn't want to listen cos he was upset and ended up leaving the house.
I got angry because I felt he doesn't listen the first, second or third time after I tell him not to do stuff and he was BU for not realising I was human and that was my first mistake.
I got really, really angry.
I felt justified to lock him out when he went out of the house.
Initially I used to do the walking out and he scolded me that he didn't like it and I stopped, but then did it yesterday and it pissed me off!
He knocked for ages and I left him there and packed his things and told him he was BU and he needed to leave.
I finally came to my senses and I have been apologising that I overreacted but he seems so hurt that I did that and it keeps coming up over and over again.
The issue is soooo minor but ended up being a major problem
This is our first BIG fight in 7 years :(
I'm not sure what to do to make it up to him.
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(Please be kind :/)
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I flipped out on DH and now I feel like the bad guy
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detoke · 11/03/2019 12:41
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