The bait and attack thing going on is reminiscent of my days in primary school
Well you know how in primary school the teacher has to ascertain just how much knowledge and confidence in their learning a pupil has? And then tries to educate and correct inaccuracies? Well think of Cath as being the pupil who has a distinct lack of knowledge and what she does have is from the wrong, outdated text books. When the teacher tries to instil the correct knowledge, it is found that she is totally resistant/incapable of learning.
As we are all adults here, and some pretty knowledgable in our specialist field, it’s not surprising that we react like we do when faced with such ridulous, potentially dangerous thinking. This is why we can’t take her seriously.
The one thing newly diagnosed HIV+ are warned about is to only read from reliable sources. We know which ones they are and where we will find the most up-to-date info.
As for being self aware, due to past events I personally would say that being self aware, along with empathy, is one of my best traits.